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AIBU to think that our environmental awareness seems to go by the board

129 replies

helloclitty · 09/04/2012 11:12

where children's toys are concerned.

I am guilty myself so I am not being judgemental but I am thinking that we should collectively be more responsible. I use my recycling bag when I shop and I cycle or walk my children to school, I try to reduce water and energy waste in the home BUT my house is full of plastic crap toys.

Aibu to think that we should totally stop buying plastic toys and stick to environmentally friendly ones even if it means our kids will have far less of them. And should we ask grandparents etc to stop too.

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mosschops30 · 09/04/2012 21:48

yak i am so sorry for what you are going through.

But i dont have room in my head for wildlife.

Hiding thread now as ive made my point.

You have your opinion and i have mine

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 09/04/2012 21:53

Yak, I am so sorry :(

Mosschops I would respectfully suggest that if your job is consuming you so much that you find yourself unable to be concerned about much else (with the obvious exception of your family) then it may be time to find something else. The environment is part of you and your children. They are part of it. A world without wildlife would be completely shit.

MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 01:42

You let me know when the make a wooden wii and a wooden dsi, and we'll buy them.

helloclitty · 10/04/2012 07:21

MickyDodger

Well of course a dsi is so so important in your child's life isn't it. How could children possibly live without one Hmm
Missing the point completely I'm afraid. Did you see the links on this thread earlier?

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MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 09:39

I do so love that at least half of posters in aibu deem you to have missed the point if you disagree. Hmm

So, lets get this straight, children shouldn't have plastic toys like ds's or indeed anything else...but I presume the computer you are pontificating via is wind up and made of bamboo? So you're not, in fact, a hypocrite in the slightest?

ClaireAll · 10/04/2012 09:41

What is the environmental impact of 'plastic' when it is in use (ie not concerning its disposal)?

Whatmeworry · 10/04/2012 10:17

I do so love that at least half of posters in aibu deem you to have missed the point if you disagree.

True dat.

Also, if you are going to worry about plastic toys as a contributor to environmental degradation you are missing the point big time. Like light bulbs and turning computers off, this really is among the dregs of the causes.

helloclitty · 10/04/2012 10:28

Micky

I have clearly stated in my OP that I am just as bad and I am in no way judging but I think we could all cut down on kids plastic crap couldn't we?

And sometimes people do miss the point Grin

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MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 10:44

So why so rude with your "Well of course a dsi is so so important in your child's life isn't it. How could children possibly live without one Hmm"? Why should my kid do without a ds if you can't give up your computer?

I actually don't buy any plastic crap toys, so no, I couldn't do with cutting down.

bejeezus · 10/04/2012 10:50

wooden toys arent more 'environmentally friendly' necessarily- not if they are from monocultures and mass produced in polluting factories, manned by minimum wage slaves, then shipped have way around teh world for your enjoyment. Plastic toys are more durable and therefore could be considered more environmentally friendly as they would last generations and multiple families of chewy and throughing, where as wooden toys will degrade quicker.

Has anyone done cradle to grave life cycle analysis of wooden toys versus plastic toys?

Depends on you and your habits really as to how your 'household' of toys would rank- we dont have 'too many' toys, most of them are plastic, most of them are second hand

IMO the preference for wooden toys is a snobby thing

helloclitty · 10/04/2012 10:52

I actually don't buy any plastic crap toys, so no, I couldn't do with cutting down. Micky

Why not write that you don't actually buy any plastic toys then rather than your post about waiting for a wooden Dsi and Wii?

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helloclitty · 10/04/2012 10:54

And the reason why I said you missed the point was because no-one was referring to dsi's etc, they were referring to bulky plastic tat like the bed link I posted and as others stated crappy party bags.

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MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 10:54

Because those are the plastic things we have. Obviously. Although we bought them second hand so reused rather than recycled.
You know preachy combined with hypocritical doesn't win you any awards.

ClaireAll · 10/04/2012 11:02

Why is plastic so cheap when it comes from such a precious commodity?

helloclitty · 10/04/2012 11:07

I'm not sure ClaireAll maybe someone can enlighten us Smile

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MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 11:11

Because most plastic production is from the by-products of petroleum refining, its whats left over after you've taken the useable petrol out.

MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 11:12

Because most plastic production is from the by-products of petroleum refining, its whats left over after you've taken the useable petrol out.

Whatmeworry · 10/04/2012 11:12

Why is plastic so cheap when it comes from such a precious commodity?

Because it is a commodity, not precious.

Has anyone done cradle to grave life cycle analysis of wooden toys versus plastic toys?

The price of something is usually a good indication of its to-produce energy input, unless it is unique or rare in some way.

Good point er total lifetime per toy too, in that case the plastic toys I would ban are the ones that are just about impossible to glue together when they break.

ClaireAll · 10/04/2012 11:33

Exactly, Mickey.

Plastics, in themselves, are not particularly bad for the environment because the oil is not produced and refined primarily to provide for plastics. It is refined to provide fuels. A byproduct of cracking (something which enables us to use more of the oil for fuel) provides the raw material for plastics. If we did not use these alkenes to make plastics, we would have to throw them away and they potentially are much worse for the greenhouse effect.

We do not need to overly worry that we are consuming the earth's resources when using plastics.

We should concern ourselves with what happens to these plastics when we no longer want them, but that is a different discussion altogether.

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 10/04/2012 12:17

Oh it's Claire. Hello Claire.

Why is when a thread appears in which the poster is worrying about an environmental problem and wonders what we can do about it, they are often attacked for being a hypocrite or lacking in scientific knowledge, or in my case on another thread with similar theme to this, a scaremongerer. It was obvious that the OP here was concerned about the disposable culture of plastic use. In the thread I started it was about this plastic litter killing wildlife. In neither thread was anyone saying "I use no plastic. I disagree with plastic. No one should use any plastic - it's evil," but in both threads posters were wondering about what we should do about the amount of plastic which is simply discarded and were wondering whether there another, better way. You cannot compare plastic toys with laptops, and dismiss someone who worries about the former while using the latter as a hypocrite. It is not that black and white. Laptops have a high value so we look after them better and use them for longer than say a plastic cup, or a cheap toy for example. How many laptops do you see lying around on the beach compared to a plastic cup, or a spade or a flag? Again this is different to the sharing and passing on and reusing of plastic toys, which other posters have said they do, and all credit to them.

Why do people get so defensive? What's wrong with acknowledging that there is an issue and wondering if together there is something we can do about it, without some posters feeling "judged". I don't think any sane person could deny that there is far far too much discarded plastic litter the land and the sea and that it is most certainly not a good thing.

Claire said "We should concern ourselves with what happens to these plastics when we no longer want them, but that is a different discussion altogether." I don't think it is a different discussion altogether. If there wasn't so much produced then there wouldn't be such a problem with disposing of it, and if it wasn't considered to be so disposable and cheap, then there wouldn't be so much produced. In another thread she said I wasn't in possession of sufficient facts to observe that there was a massive problem (in that case it was the sea of plastic in the Pacific finding its way onto Midway Atoll, pretty much the most remote place on earth, and which you would think would be fairly pristine. It isn't. Seabirds and their chicks, and other animals like dolphins and turtles, are dying in vast numbers because they are choking on plastic. Watch here ).

She refused even to look at the link I had poster and questioned my motives in starting such a discussion, implying that the film maker was biased and unbalanced and she shouldn't give it her attention. How are we supposed to ever improve anything if people who are concerned and try and bring issues to other people's attention are dismissed as hysterical, unbalanced, unscientific, lacking in education, facts and knowledge? Bob Geldof didn't know everything about the situation in Ethiopia in 1984 when he watched a film which shocked him to the core and he decided to bring it to as many people's attention as he could. Was he dismissed as emotive, ignorant and hysterical? (and no, before anyone suggests it, I don't believe I am like Bob Geldof)

Why are people not allowed to feel strongly about something which is to do with the environment and to try and discuss it with other people on MN?

bejeezus · 10/04/2012 12:37

The price of something is usually a good indication of its to-produce energy input, unless it is unique or rare in some way

No-its very often not that straight forward. And it isnt only 'energy input' which needs to be considered

MickyDodger · 10/04/2012 12:44

What on earth are you talking about ariel? People feeling so strongly about an issue that they want everyone else to do something that they can't be bothered to? "Hey folks, plastic is bad, don't you think you shouldn't use it? I use it, but y'know, you shouldn't....."

People are only accused of hypocrisy when there is clear and obvious hypocrisy. And a distinct lack of knowing what you are talking about doesn't help either.

Have strong opinions. Talk about them. But if you don't know the facts and don't practise what you preach, what is the jeffing point?

helloclitty · 10/04/2012 12:45

Thanks Ariel

I haven't seen your thread but what you say is true. I don't see why most of us couldn't reduce our plastic waste. And personally a lot of toys are totally unnecessary.

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bejeezus · 10/04/2012 12:53

I can only speak for myself Arial, but the reason these kind of threads irritate me mildly, is because its not a revelation is it. Just because an OP has suddenly realised that her child has too many plastic toys, doesnt mean the rest of us are living in ignorant bliss...

that, and the covert snobbery when talking about 'hating plastic crap'...theres plenty of wooden crap an'all

saltyair · 10/04/2012 12:57

Mickey i may be misunderstanding your last post, but you seem to be saying that Ariel doesn't know her stuff, which it seems clear that she does. Are you also saying she is hypocritical and doesn't practise what she preaches?

In my VERY humble opinion Aries has made some excellent points, backed up by solid facts. Good show, I'd say.

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