I went out with some friends last night, during the night my phone battery died and I wasn't able to text DP that I'd be back at his a bit late.
Got back quite late at night, he'd gone to bed and was fast asleep. I was furious that he had gone to bed without checking to see if I was ok (when I turned my phone on, there was only one message) and he said that he thought I wasn't there because "I'd gone to stay somewhere else" (I have no idea where he thought I would have gone!)
Cue arguing, he's gone to work now after another mini argument and I still feel really unsettled. It really affected me that he wasn't bothered if I was in the house or not, and more worrying that he assumed I'd just gone to stay at a friend's house without letting him know. I wouldn't have been able to sleep if he'd been that late back, and would have at least tried to call.. it was the sheer indifference as to where I was that upset me, not to mention the fact that I was obviously upset and he just ignored it.
However, am I being unreasonable? Should he have made more of an effort to message or find out where I was? Or am I being unreasonable, and should I have just let it go? What do I do now?? Do I apologise? Help!