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To be unsurprised that so many women get post natal depression?

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toptramp · 27/03/2012 22:54

My late mum had post natal depression after a horrendous birth during which she almost died. Couple that with the shock of becoming a new mum and the general lack of staus that society offers mums (especially single mums like me) and I am not surprised that so many of us get so down. It is a wonderful time but it also so tough. What can be done about it?
My birth wasn't great (I had a c-section)and I did it without a dp yet I didn't get pnd like my mum did. I did get the shock of my life mixed with a lot of love!

HelenMumsnet · 30/03/2012 12:13

Hello everyone.

Time for a massive apology and humble-pie eating session from MNHQ. Well, actually, more specifically, from me.

We should have deleted troisgarcons' post several days ago when it was first reported to us.

The MNHQer on duty asked me about it and I speed-read it and missed the very last part where PND was dismissed as not being a genuine MH issue.

It was my decision to let the post stand - we don't delete opinions just for being unpleasant or ignorant or misguided. If I had read it properly, I would have agreed that it should be deleted - as we would delete any post that stated any acknowledged mental-health condition was not real.

I'm very sorry. Really bad call on my part.

Thank you to all who reported to us and to those whose eloquent responses on this thread stopped short of personal attacks. However delete-worthy a post and however balls-uppy the initial MNHQ response to it, personal attacks are still against our Talk Guidelines, and we have to delete them, too.

In a situation like this, we would normally just delete the whole thread for turning into a bit of a bunfight. But there are so many moving and inspiring posts on this thread now, we'd really rather leave it up. We hope you agree this is the best move.

HelenMumsnet · 30/03/2012 12:30

Please don't think badly of anyone else at MNHQ. They were just following (crappy) orders. And they're all lovely and very hard-working and conscientious.

HelenMumsnet · 30/03/2012 12:44

@NarkedPuffin

Shock MNHQ are fallible?

Next you'll be telling us you can't turn water into Wine

I bloody wish we could!

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