A friend and ex-colleague of DH's moved to a different city a couple of hours away a few years ago. We've stayed sporadically in touch and meet up maybe 2 or 3 times a year in either city. He usually stays overnight when he comes to ours.
Anyway, he has said he would like to visit soon, and could he bring a guest? I'm assuming he means a girlfriend, of which there have been a few in recent years and whose name I don't even know.
I'm not great at meeting new people, nor at hosting overnight stays and don't even particularly want to meet her, let alone have her staying at my house. It's not like it's a long-term girlfriend that he wants to introduce, in fact I'm not even sure why he wants her there. AIBU to think he's being a bit presumptuous and to say 'No, I'd rather you came on your own'? Or am I just socially weird?