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To let 9year old dd walk a mile through woods every day on her own to get to school?

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Ouluckyduck · 19/03/2012 23:11

this question is currently being discussed on a German forum. Huss what the responses are.

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Ouluckyduck · 19/03/2012 23:12

Guess that is

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tethersend · 19/03/2012 23:13

Get her a red hoody to make sure she can be seen?

WorraLiberty · 19/03/2012 23:13

I couldn't guess without the info

Pandemoniaa · 19/03/2012 23:14

Only to talk to wolves she's been previously introduced too? And perhaps beware of grandmothers with very large teeth?

thebody · 19/03/2012 23:14

Oh dear

Ouluckyduck · 19/03/2012 23:16

There is no other info. The question is being debated in all seriousness and I am amazed at the responses, especially in contrast to the reaction I'd expect you'd get on a UK forum.

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Clownsarescary · 19/03/2012 23:16

Breadcrumbs?

hiddenhome · 19/03/2012 23:17

I don't think they'll be worried about it at all. I think they expect their youngsters to be mature and self sufficient. (I have rels in Germany).

skybluepearl · 19/03/2012 23:17

I wouldn't let my 9 year old.

Portofino · 19/03/2012 23:18

Nor me!

Bohica · 19/03/2012 23:19

Er, no.

My 10 year old is desperate to walk the short non wooded walk to school but over my dead body will I let her until this summer maybe next summer.

And I already let her play in our cul de sac at the weekend Shock

SconeInSixtySeconds · 19/03/2012 23:20

Nope. Couldn't do that, not through a wood. Down a footpath fair enough. It's too easy to conceal yourself in a wood.

EdithWeston · 19/03/2012 23:23

Is it a main route to the school, and is it much used by other families?

My DCs started coming home from school alone aged about 10, so I'm not worried about her age. But I'd have been terrified of being alone in a woods at that age (overacting imagination); it wouldn't be so scary if there were 40 other families on a good path at the same time.

TuftyFinch · 19/03/2012 23:25

They'll all be saying 'yes'. She can do a bit of woodcraft on her way and build a camp if she gets cold.

jifnotcif · 19/03/2012 23:26

A mile is only 15 minutes walk! I would say its up to dd - if she feels comfortable with it, let her.

Northernlurker · 19/03/2012 23:26

I would say yes fine, if well frequented path and child confident. I suspect MANY British parents would say otherwise though. Tree and paedophile being the same thing apparently.

Birdsgottafly · 19/03/2012 23:27

As long as safety measures are inplace, such as the parent phoning the school if the child is absent, so therefor if the child doesn't arrive, the school is aware that there may have been an accident, then it is up to the parents and school to decide, between them (they will know the area best).

SundaeGirl · 19/03/2012 23:27

Provided she takes a cake and doesn't stray off the path for flowers?

Clownsarescary · 19/03/2012 23:28

Come to think of it, I would walk a mile through woods on my own! but then I am a woose

thebody · 19/03/2012 23:31

Not on your nelly! Though I did at that age. But no no no no no

Ouluckyduck · 19/03/2012 23:35

Another interesting discussion: what age would you let your child have a wood carving knife?

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CakeMixture · 19/03/2012 23:36

I cant help wondering if the german forum had questions about red hoodies, warnings about wolves and suggestions about breadcrumbs. :o

Im always a bit nervous in a wood on my own so I wouldnt let a 9yo do it no.

Clownsarescary · 19/03/2012 23:36

*wouldn't Blush

OP wouldn't let my child have a knife no.

TuftyFinch · 19/03/2012 23:37

8 years old.

CakeMixture · 19/03/2012 23:37

Ouluckyduck - 3 seems a good age................. :o

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