I recently went to one of those post natal baby groups. It was lead by a health visitor and a early years practitioner. I was having a nice time and both the leaders seemed nice. However the practitioner kept referring everything back to her own children which did get quite annoying. All the other mums were first time mums so I tried not to talk about my older dc as thought it wasn't appropriate.
Then one of the mums started talking about tax credits and how she wasn't entitled, the other mums joined in too. The practitioner then said something about how it makes her sick that benefit scroungers get loads of benefits. Then she says you should not be entitled unless you have paid in. Fair enough that's her opinion but what if one of the mums had been on benefits?
She then says that people coming into this country shouldn't get anything until they have been here a year and worked a year. Again her opinion but unprofessional no? Its put me off going back. I wanted to meet other mums not getting into benefit and immigrant bashing and setting the world to rights!
She also lives locally and her dcs go to my kids school if she is unprofessional I'd be concerned she wouldn't keep things discussed in the group confidential.