Right - went out tonight to eat - nice local Italian - so far so good. Then went in local pub - Chelsea v Napoli was on TV - so far so good. DH and other regulars largely supporting Chelsea though not our local team by far - not the team any of them support,just supporting them on grounds English team etc etc.
I wanted Napoli to win on same grounds (l am half Italian) though wasnt really bothered either way or into the game all that much. Well Chelsea won basically and TV panned to some Italian fans looking very miserable and my DH doing a double act with another regular started saying 'Oh they'll probably go and stab some English fans now etc'
Unfortunately l had the audacity to stick up for my countrymen and pipe up with 'pot and kettle' as England fans are world famous for being hooligans etc etc as far as l know. He starts saying stuff like 'You dont know what you're talking about' etc etc.and getting really bolshee with me. l said 'I am entitled to my opinion and l have either dreamt it for the last 20 years or so or England fans are known for hooliganism etc'
He then said 'You're wrong though (then in mocking voice) - how many international football games have you been to?' (er btw he's been to one as far as l know !!)
I mean WTAF ? Who is this man ? He bore no resemblance to my usual lovely DH ! He was like some 1950s caricature - women shouldnt have an opinion on anything to do with anything especially football - that's mens domain etc etc.
We went to next pub and had another row about something and nothing (at least l thought so - I said Hiya to someone a little too enthusiastically apparently ) . So on way home he said 'Another night out with Sudaname - ends up in a row - waste of fucking time'.
He is in spare room - he went there of own accord after telling me to fuck off and leave him alone - he's sick of me etc etc.
Where's my lovely husband gone - anyone seen him
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