....to practise my 'yes'?

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I think DP might propose on Saturday. Should i practise my response?? I dont want him to remind me that my first words were wtf? Or errrrr or some such rubbish. What immortal words shall i use?
I'll probably just say 'yes' in a baby voice.

Yes.

We also don't break up regularly and get back together because DH makes me a mixtape.

Because we're not 16.

Yes.

No one has a perfect relationship but if you're getting married it should be pretty damn close.

Crumbs! You lot are a bit miserable. Life isnt rosy and vanilla for everyone. Give a girl a break.

Right let's to go back to before you broke up, and I quote...

Its been on off on off for six years.

You Idiot! In the kindest of ways. Of course other people fall out, but these speedy extremes, and the length of time it's gone on for, isn't normal and. Don't forget your kids are witnessing this.

If I'm wrong, invite me to your silver wedding do and I will happily bring a hat to eat. I promise.

I will be eating a hat with Rhonda.

I get married in a few weeks and we have never ever had to take even 3 minutes to think about our relationship let alone 3 days or 6 years of on and off.

No I'm not miserable Weevils. I'm remarkably happy, because as you pointed out life isn't all rosy and vanilla, and I have some to help me through that, always. Any relationship can make it through the good times, it's how it goes through the rough that matters.

Yeah, but Kayzr - how many mixtapes do you have?

hmmm? :o

That's the true sign of a strong relationship.

Wow! Is this eastenders??

I assume this thread is a joke? Or your DC mentioned is in fact your Dsis/Dbro and you are in fact 12?! I'm confused!!

None Athing should I call off the wedding for 3 days and then put it back on again?

Kayzr, i wish you all the best with your marriage. If its the first time i hope its the only time.
I'll just say that when you are on a second time round you are all too aware of the difficulties of marriage especially when children from two marriages are involved. Both me and my soon to be DH were cheated on by our former Spouses. So are very wary. The fact is whatever we go through we get back together. Over the weekend we covered some particularly emotive subjects and i suffer with v bad PMT. We have our eyes wide open and are not blinded by romance. All relationships have tbe initial romantic rosy bit, i hope yours lasts eternity.

Weevil you are absolutely right, that initial romance but doesn't last, however I also don't think it's normal to go from waiting for a proposal to hating someone and wanting them out of your life to then being engaged all with 1 week (unless you're a teenager!)

But hey ho, horses for courses. Hope everything works out for you.

It is my second marriage actually and my sons have had to get used to having DP around and I was cheated on by XH. So yes I do know actually.

But still never gone from Yay he's going to propose to I don't want to be with him to engaged yay in 3 days.