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To be stumped/mad/hurt for my daughter DH and me.

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Doha · 29/02/2012 19:47

Okay so she is still young 17 - bit has been going out with her boyfriend for 14 months. I think/thought he was a nice decent boy.
Last night they were discussing T in the park and holidays. They decided that they were coming on holiday with DH and me (nothing extravant just a week in a cottage in UK, so them not coming would not cost anything).
So this morning she texts me to say that he had gone ahead and bought himself a ticket for T in the park and had not told her--she had text him just to make sure of their decision. She was so gutted that he had changed his mind without ketting her know and leaving her no chance to get herself a ticket.
Now he was not forced to come with us on holiday-in fact l knew nothing about their decision to come until last night, so l can't work out what went wrong. Luckily l was not at work this morning and luckily managed to get her a ticket to go with her friends as she wants nothing to do with him now.
I can't believe l completly misjudged the boy. Guess l am mad at myself too. DD is so angry today l don't think the hurt has hit her yet.

Sorry not sure what l am asking , just needed to vent

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EauDeLaPoisson · 01/03/2012 18:11

Anyway she is made of stronger stuff and is resolute in that she won't be treated like that by anyone, especially someone who could change his mind completly within 8 hours

Well if thats the worst thats going to happen to her in terms of relationship problems she will live a charmed life!

BoneyBackJefferson · 01/03/2012 19:20

"they" or "she" decided that they would go on holiday with you?

Sounds like you are both reading to much in to this and the lad has had a close shave.

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