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To be annoyed by the smugness of some parents who have TV-free homes?

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marfisa · 28/02/2012 23:42

A friend/colleague of mine boasted posted on her facebook (in connection with World Book Day) that her DC's imaginations "run free" because they have never been allowed to watch telly or play on games consoles. As a result (she says) they love to read! and they run round the house pretending to be ancient Egyptians!

It isn't the first time she has made comments like this and it always irks me. I have to refrain from posting a snarky response along the lines of, "My DS watches telly AND owns a Nintendo DS. Yet amazingly, his imagination still manages to run free!" In fact, we are a bookish household and he loves to read. Yet he has also been infatuated at various points with Ben10/Power Rangers/Dr Who/Club Penguin/Moshi Monsters/Pokemon and I see NOTHING wrong with this. How narrow-minded does a parent have to be in order to think that telly and computer games can't nourish a child's imagination as well? Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating UNLIMITED telly and gaming. I don't even have a problem with families not owning a TV (I know a number of families who don't, and I'm sure their DC are surviving just fine). I just think that fostering love of books is much more about having lots of books around than about banning TV and Nintendo altogether. And I'm sick of the implication that the more telly your DC watch, the less imagination they will have. Pop culture can be pretty damn amazing. If you want to restrict your kids' access to it, fine, but don't be all pretentious about it. Impersonating a Time Lord does not necessarily involve less imagination than impersonating an ancient Egyptian. end rant

OP posts:
Anniegetyourgun · 01/03/2012 10:04

I don't not-watch TV because I'm smug. I am just too lazy to get the aerial fixed.

choccyp1g · 01/03/2012 10:12

IdratherbemuckingoutThu 01-Mar-12 08:33:49 We had friends who were unbearably smug about not having a tv in their house etc, and yet, whenever they came to visit us they sat them selves down in front of ours and glued themselves to it.

Now this is probably a whole nother thread, but don't you turn the TV OFF when you have visitors?

GeorgiaMay · 01/03/2012 10:25

I've only met one family who had no TV. When the kids came to our house I found them both sitting on the floor staring at the blank screen of the switched-off tv. Maybe they thought that was all it did, but they were REALLY interested.

somewherewest · 01/03/2012 10:30

My DH's parents were in the no-TV-and-smug-about-it camp (in addition to the breastfeeding-and-smug-about-it camp, and the SAHM-and-smug-about-it camp....you get the picture), whereas my childhood was cheerfully saturated with Dallas, the A-Team and about seventeen different soaps and cop shows (and formula, and dummies...the horror!). Guess which one of us got a first at university and which one a third (evil, evil grin). You can also guess which one still reads and which one doesn't....

somewherewest · 01/03/2012 10:31

PS I should add that I love my DH dearly and am not mocking him, just his bloody parents

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