I'm a bit stressed and fed up and am wondering if am just being irritable or have a genuine gripe - as I say in the title it's fairly trivial! If your DH read your FB over your shoulder, had a good rant about your use of the internet, talked over you and refused to listen to you, leaned over a table whilst you were having lunch with guests and wiped something off your apron whilst muttering about "if you won't do it I will", would you find this acceptable behaviour?
So as not to drip feed here's the back story - DH is getting on my wick at the moment; he has these moods every few months (always has had) where he just withdraws and virtually stops communicating for a week or so. I find it fairly annoying but am pretty much used to it now. During this time he gets really narky about me using FB/Twitter/MN, whereas I think that if he's not going to communicate with me I'll talk to other people that way. I work from home and we moved a year ago and don't really know many people so a lot of the time the internet is a lifeline for keeping in touch with people.
Anyway, yesterday we were out on the beach, the kids were happily playing and I quickly had a look at FB on my phone. DH comes up behind me and starts reading over my shoulder - which annoyed me in itself. Asked him what he was doing and he starts ranting about "what's so interesting on FB" and he "doesn't understand why people feel the need to go on FB/Twitter etc etc". I started to answer him and he just totally shouted me down and wouldn't listen. It started off being the reading over my shoulder thing but it escalated; he's currently in one of his not speaking modes and is acting a bit oddly. I just think it's a strange thing for him to suddenly do, but then to be so arrogant as to shout me down and not even let me talk really pissed me off. Last week we were having lunch with MIL and when I sat down I had a speck of food on my apron from cooking. He pointed it out and when I didn't instantly jump to remove it he leaned diagonally over the table and wipes it off muttering about how if I'm not going to do it he will. I'm aware typing this that it sounds ridiculous, but I wouldn't dream of leaning over and wiping his face/clothes while we were having lunch with guests, it struck me as a strange, patronising thing to do and made me feel like I was one of the children. Individually these are pretty insignificant things really, but I just feel at the moment like he's doing a lot of things that I think are quite rude/weird, but when I say so he tells me I'm being weird and oversensitive and there's nothing in any of it.
And now we're back to not communicating at all and I'm just pretty fed up about the whole bloody thing. AIBU? I'm aware it sounds a bit odd, maybe it's me being odd?