Oh I probably was but here goes! DP and I have been together 1.5 yrs, living together for 3 months. He has one DD from his marriage. We have been having money problems, I had to pay all of the deposit on our house, have paid all of the rent and bills since we moved in together. I don't mind too much as this was what was agreed for a few months so he could do up his house and rent it out. But now I have to pay again next month because he can't afford it and I have all the final bills from my old house to pay. I can't really afford all of them. So to day I made a snidey comment when he was talking about his old house, I said 'why did you buy a house with a huge kitchen when neither your or your EXW can cook?', he went mental! I begrudge paying sometimes because he and his EXW chose to buy a house that they couldn't afford, they had to have three bedrooms when they only have one child. They spent a fortune on furniture they didn't need. I feel like they wanted a 'magazine' life and borrowed loads to live like that but I am the one paying for the fall out. He owes his parents £30,000 because of their wedding, honeymoon and his EXW MH issues. I am ruining my credit rateing because of all they money he and his EXW spent on their life. We can't entertain having our own DC for years because of money and I want a baby so so much. So am IBU to get annoyed or am I a jealous cow? Sorry no paragraphs stupis phone won't do it!