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for being a little bit hypocritical..........

61 replies

Lexie1970 · 18/02/2012 14:14

Vaguely know a lady from a slimming class and bumped into her yesterday in supermarket.

Made the mistake of saying hello, how are you and then the floodgates opened up - that her benefits had been stopped and she was waiting for a doctors letter to be sent to office to see if they would be reinstated. How did they expect her to survive on just housing benefit and child benefit and how she had to borrow £50 to do the shopping, her son needed new shoes and on and on and on...

I said well, it is understandable that if certain claimants are using a bad back as an excuse and they are roofing on the side then it is right that they are being assessed, to which she replied that she had a bad back and was being assessed, how she couldn't walk far etc etc and yet was quite happily carrying a basket and swinging it around!!!

I am very black and white re benefits and think you have to be incapacitated to receive them and not just have a bad back occasionally but that could open up a whole other thread!!!

Anyway, politely said hope it all gets sorted but was actually thinking, if you can afford a pet, run a car and pay for a weekly slimming class you are not in dire straights and perhaps should think about looking for some paid employment instead of bitching about your benefits being stopped.

OP posts:
LilacWaltz · 18/02/2012 17:57

What did you actually report them for brittania? what were they up to?

Lexie1970 · 18/02/2012 20:17

no i haven't flounced - read my post earlier up when I wished all a pleasant saturday.

You all think I am judgy - fine I have my views, they are completely different to all of yours and everyone is entitled to their opinions.

Mamaggie - your daughter is in a wheelchair and trying to be independent - being wheelchair bound I am presuming she needs some support - your daughter is not the type of claiment my op was aimed at.

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AKissIsNotAContract · 18/02/2012 20:20

But you still haven't explained why you think you are being hypocritical.

desperatenotstupid · 18/02/2012 20:27

I think she was trying to find another word for judgemental and couldnt quite manage it

duckdodgers · 18/02/2012 20:38

your daughter is not the type of claiment my op was aimed at.

Well who is then? Apart from benefit claimaints that have the audacity to use a basket and gulp...be in a supermarket!

SuePurblybilt · 18/02/2012 20:53

desperatenotstupid - nooooo, I suggested judgemental. Apparently not.

So the OP was aimed at people who admit to claiming benefits but who you, in your expert opinion and all, think are not medically eligible. On account of the basket evidence.

desperatenotstupid · 18/02/2012 21:00

They could introduce this as an eligability test - basket swinging, those able to swing above a certain height will no longer qualify

duckdodgers · 18/02/2012 21:04

Good idea desperate. They could maybe let folk stay on their benefit if they had a lettuce or something in their basket but god help them if they can swing their basket with tins of beans and a packet of washing powder in it!

Onesunnymorningin2012 · 18/02/2012 21:04

OP, you are not hypocritical. Unpleasant and judgemental, perhaps.

Are you medically qualified?

SecretMinceRinser · 18/02/2012 21:10

If it is lower back pain there is a lot of pressure there when pushing so a basket would likely be better.

LilacWaltz · 18/02/2012 22:27

What a pointless and odd thread!!

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