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To not get this violent, awful images out of my head..does this affect anyone else in the same way???

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JimmyChooChoo · 17/02/2012 18:17

I saw a beautiful dog being skinned alive for it's fur in ChinaSadit was highlighted from Peta but now you only have to go on social networking sites such as Facebook to see this awful stuff.
I didn't know until recently(well maybe the past year)that this really happens.I wanted to believe they stun the animals or somehow kill them in the most humane way possible(if there even is a 'humane' way to kill something) first BEFORE they skin them.
I have thought about this NON STOP for the past couple of weeks.I cannot get the thought of this out of my head.
Is anyone else aware of how dogs and cats are killed for their fur?I ask because I told my DM(vegetarian,loves animals etc)and she said 'don't be silly nobody would skin a dog or a cat alive' but thats the cheapest option to do it as they don't want to ruin the fur so they start at the leg and well you can work out the gruesome endSad
Does anyone else lose sleep over this?I don't know how to forget about it and put it out of my mind..I've been having awful nightmares ever since and I wake up early hours and I cannot sleepSad

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 17/02/2012 22:09

I watched a video on YouTube linked through TackRoom about Rodeos sponsered by CocaCola.
The wranglers were prisoners from an American jail, some of the most violent men in the USA.

Their 'treat' involved a race to get a wild horse bridled,saddled and on its side.By whatever means possible.
So a group of 4-5 men pulling, kicking, twisting the ears of a horse, punching its head and basically humiliating a scared and beautiful animal into a position where it is completely vunerable.

But almost worse (if anything could be) was the pitiful sight of a colt with two broken legs hobbling towards a group of wranglers horses and in it's eyes 'safety'. But hustled out the back gate to be shot later, not even put out of it's misery .

Sickened. Yes.
Don't watch it.Pretend it doesn't happen? Is that really an option?

I couldn't unsee this. It's left mental scars.

lottiegb · 17/02/2012 22:21

Hmm, I regard myself as quite stable and not at all ill but have always found it impossible to delete images once they are in my head. I don't think about them often but they are still there and I'd always like warnings on news reports, documentaries etc so I can choose to avoid them - I'm capable of understanding the issue and taking relevant action without shock tactics.

There is something about images, with descriptions, of animal cruelty - perhaps their simplicity, there is no doubt about where power or responsibility lies - that makes them particularly likely to stick. Narrative description can have almost the same effect as I can conjour the images.

I don't know what people think they are doing by posting images of abused animals on facebook - I saw one of a dog this week. Without the story it doesn't have the same impact, I just think 'yucky picture, go away' and it only makes me think the poster is odd, not that I should give to a charity - charities themselves don't operate in such a low-grade way, they occasionally use shocking images but with well thought out text and a message. 'Can't humans be horrible, poor, poor doggy' is not one such.

I do think though, that for the issues that bother you because they are really happening in the world, you need to focus on making a difference in the world, not just to yourself. A relevant charity in this instance might be WSPA, who work on animal protection internationally.

southeastastra · 17/02/2012 22:25

i saw something similar on telly in about 1994 but with cats. no-one cares much anymore, it's so awful as animal movements were really getting somewhere in the 80s

we seem to be getting more accepting of animal cruelty these days rather than the other way around...

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 17/02/2012 22:27

I knew there was a reason not to have FB.
I don't really want random pictures springing up (I'm a vegetarian of 31 years standing so I'm well aware what happens)
Also after reading a thread about the boy having vile abuse via FB I'm glad I stuck to my guns and not allowed by DCs an account.

lottiegb · 17/02/2012 22:36

Well... it's not facebook's fault that one of my 'friends' thinks it's a good idea to share horrible images of animals. She'd probably be showing people the same thing, cut from some pamphlet or news story, down the pub in the pre-electronic age. I can delete her post, or her as a 'friend', there is some control...

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 18/02/2012 12:57

I have this issue, I cannot 'unsee' a vision from a book I read once nor the footage of the child in china being run over..... wish I could Sad

TuesdayNightClub · 18/02/2012 13:50

I have similar problems controlling my thoughts, not just disturbing ones but also the urge to say/do really inappropriate things at inappropriate times. Never thought about learning to control other than trying to limit my exposure to horrid images, I don't google stuff, watch horror movies, I've hidden my vegan friend on fb ( she posts lots of images). I do feel like I am lacking in responsibility and hiding my head in the sand, but it is a self-preservation thing. I'm a worrier, without some self protection I wouldn't leave the house!

Tryharder · 18/02/2012 14:06

I would suggest: join PETA, don't buy fake UGGs or similar, write to the Chinese Ambassador in London.....

Will it achieve anything? Probably not but if enough people protest, then it may make a difference. I was once flicking through books in an airport and picked up a random book about witchcraft/voodooism in West Africa and really, really wish I hadn't. Sad

But if you are not sleeping and having bad nightmares, then I would suggest seeing your Doctor for help.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 18/02/2012 14:44

When I saw this thread title, the same thing was in my mind. I've never watched the video and won't because I know that I wouldn't be able to get the images out of my head either.

As you've already seen it - go to the Animals Asia Foundation website and look for 'DoctorDog'; this is a fab programme that they're running to educate the people in China that dogs are not food, that they have a fantastic therapeutic value. I think it's a very positive message.

I support Animals Asia and I think that to counteract some of the damage this has done to your 'soul', you desperately need some positive stories for balance. Many, many 'consignments' of dogs and cats destined for restaurants are being stopped and seized and the animals rescued. The unlucky ones die of course, but they only die once... try to focus on them being out of pain and torment and that bit by bit the public can send a message to get this horrible practice outlawed once and for all.

Arsifa · 05/07/2014 06:45

Why would you turn a blind eye?

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