F***ing god damned facebook and ex"!!!!!

[MyLittleMiracle]

Well, has to be said, he changed his name AGAIN, But how the fuck has he managed to get onto my facebook? His friend request must have been accepted,or so i thought to be able to send me a message!! God damned hate it!! He also seems to know one hell of a lot about what is going on in MY LIFE! Wondering if he has hired someone (something he would do) and going on about not running off and taking him anywhere! What the cheek. He has no RIGHT to know where i live after him being so abusive! I just want him out of my life! Have not heard anything from his solicitor though and how the hell does he seem to know so much!!!

breathe. decline his friend request. block him from seeing any of your info/wall/photos. he has a legal right to knpw where his child lives (if your child is his?)

Sort out your privacy settings so he can't contact you or see your info. And maybe leave some !!! for everyone else.

Has he added himself in the name of someone else?
Is someone else showing him your page?
Are your security settings on?

Sorry but has to be said, if your so concerned about him finding out stuff why are you still on it, if i was really that worried about someone finding stuff out about me id shut down my account.

Facebook is the work of the devil, just creates more problems between people i think!

If it upsets you a lot and you feel you are at risk, I'd suggest closing down your Facebook page for a while so there's nothing for him to look at. He'll get bored after a while, then maybe change your name for a while and go through friends and remove anyone who may be reporting back or not who they seem, and keep your page locked down tight with security.

Set privacy/ security so that only friends can send you messages.

Shut down your account if you don't want him to see you (and just so you know, people can message you without being your 'friend'). I would absolutely not have an FB account in your case...use old fashioned methods to keep in touch!

Can't understand why you are on FB if you are worried about him finding out about your life! FB is not a life essential!

agree with others. i have had no fb access for the past 2 months and i've realised i'm not missing much without it. my proper friends all have my mobile number.

My friend sophie is actually having a gap year out in africa on the safari's, so calls are too expensive. Didnt even think he could see my profile and the things i have shared on facebook are just normalised things, like been out shopping bought some lush etc etc, so how the hell does he know i WANT to move. Due to domestic abuse, and his threats, i am apparently able to keep my address undisclosed to him, but he would have a right to the address of the schools etc. My friends dont have my mobile number, in case the ex gets hold of it, as when i moved down, i didnt even have a mobile. It has sort of confirmed my suspicions that he only gave up his keys, so that i would be forced to return to northampton, and to our old property so he knew where i was. He i think assumed i had two choice, live at mums or return. Neither are going to happen. Council will help with a rent deposit scheme, which is strange as its supposed to only be for those in priority need. But i think claire has all but pushed them into it! How does he know what i have been doing, when i have told absolutely NO ONE of facebook? Getting suspicious now

dont use people's real names if you dont want to be identified. your friend mightn't thank you for it either.

this is odd.

What on earth is your second post going on about? Who are sophie and claire and why do we need t know about them?

Block your ex. only accept friend requests from people you actualy know and rely on not to pass information on.

There is no need for you to be getting so stressed over something that is designed as a social tool.

change YOUR name, to something completely random .. ie Minnie Mouse. and make it completely private other than to friends, then send your friends a message telling them it is you. He cant find you, or send a message to you then.

And stop being so indiscreet in your posts.. you are naming names and towns... so unless you have changed them, you are still making yourself identifiable..

And Sharon? How is she? And the wasp?

Look, you can look at gap year photos on FB and keep in touch without posting details of your life. So do that.

Well I would imagine that all he has to do is find you on here because not only have you posted all the details, you have included your location and your friends names, so it would be very easy for him to work out that its you.

If you are this indiscreet then I am not at all surprised he knows everything! He wouldnt need a PI just a modicum of patience and a laptop!

I don't understand this thread?

What have you been posting about on FB?

Is posting her name fair?

(the ops that is)

De-activate your account. Simples

I name changed cos i think he has been on here for christ sake. Cheers for naming me really helps! All my privacy settings are set to max, and although he got on, it seems someone accepted his friend request, he has a friend, whose partner is my friend on facebook. Someone seems to have got into my account and accepted him as a friend. Hence i have now changed my password. it wasnt something i wanted to do, but he seems to know soo much! Things i have done and mentioned to no one!!