Our neighbour is in and out of our house on quite a regular basis looking for a chat, help with cat feeding, to offer DD some of her surplus craft stuff - all sorts of reasons. I think she's lonely, and I don't mind as she's very pleasant and I like her. We always offer her a cup of tea/coffee, glass of wine, snack etc. depending on time of day and she always accepts.
We occassionally need to pop in on her for minor things and never once has she offered us even a glass of water. Today I popped round with a parcel that had been left with me as she was out. She invited me in, asked me to sit at kitchen table for a chat, made herself a cup of tea and didn't even ask if I'd like one.
AIBU to think this is odd