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Original poster

To want my Dsis to tell me everything she posts?

207 replies

Fems96 · 22/01/2012 23:16

First post:-)
Just found out my DSis is a MN regular,AIBU to feel annoyed that she didn't tell me since I was the one to introduce her to MN in the first place! Feel peed off, she isn't even a mum yet and I am!! I know it's a public forum but still!

OP posts:
thirdfromleft · 23/01/2012 00:13

And there we have it. The coup de grace.

mynewpassion · 23/01/2012 00:15

Am I the only who really wants the sister to come on this thread and see the ensuing shit storm?

Should I just make popcorn and pop open the wine just in case?

cakeismysaviour · 23/01/2012 00:15

Maybe you and your sister need to sit down and talk things through, your relationship sounds unhealthy.

www.itv.com/lifestyle/jeremykyle/beaguest/

Grin
cakeismysaviour · 23/01/2012 00:16

Me too passion Blush

MissMogwi · 23/01/2012 00:17

Yeah sounds like you need The Genius -Graham.

ChitChatInChaos · 23/01/2012 00:17

I need to get to bed - if you find out who the sister is, PM me!!!

WorraLiberty · 23/01/2012 00:18

See as much as this is obviously just another illiterate wind up and is being treated as one by any poster with a modicum of sense....

In fairness to me I would have been posting but I have been busy actually being a mum to a new baby,unlike her!and before u ask yes I'm still busy with my baby but she has riled me into posting!

That's well below the belt to any poster here who is TTC

So my advice is put the cheap cider down, get a good night's sleep and when you come back under your usual MN nick name, make sure you learn how to operate the technology you're choosing to type from.

Original poster
Fems96 · 23/01/2012 00:18

Actually we do have a pretty good relationship apart from stuff like this getting in the way.she is actually calling my mobile now.

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Ihatecbeebies · 23/01/2012 00:19

Is she calling to pull you up about starting a thread about her?

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 23/01/2012 00:19

I don't have any rivalry with my sister whatsoever. Why so competitive?

Original poster
Fems96 · 23/01/2012 00:20

Phew panic not ringing about this.part of the reason came on here is because I'm not ready to speak to her in person about it.

OP posts:
mynewpassion · 23/01/2012 00:20

Please, please let it be about her pulling you up re: this thread!

Is that mean?

mynewpassion · 23/01/2012 00:21

Is it rivarly or all in the OP's head?

TheWisdomOfSolomum · 23/01/2012 00:21

Winkly do you actually have a sister? Is this your sister?

Original poster
Fems96 · 23/01/2012 00:22

I really don't mean to be rude or competitive about her,I actually really do love her,but sometimes I just get soooo frustrated at her!

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ChaoticAngel · 23/01/2012 00:23

Threads like this always make me feel as if I'm living in an alternate universe Confused

TheWisdomOfSolomum · 23/01/2012 00:24

Actually whoever your sister is OP I'm on her side, that comment "unlike her" was way our of order.

AfternoonDelight · 23/01/2012 00:25

Ah, I remember the first time my sister posted on a forum that I'd recommended...

They still haven't found the body Wink

Original poster
Fems96 · 23/01/2012 00:26

Ok,sorry for the unlike her comment,didn't mean to offend anyone with it.really didn't cause as I say I actually do really love her.

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ValarMorghulis · 23/01/2012 00:26

I do hope your sister recognises you. Can't be too difficult, surely there aren't that many non mothers with demented bitches for sisters?

Seriously your comment about "i have a baby to look after unlike her" is deserving of a slapped face and blanking forever more.
What a total cow you sound

SlinkingOutsideInFrocks · 23/01/2012 00:29

I can imagine, assuming I had an infantile, bad relationship with a sibling, having a fleeting thought along the lines of 'why does she have to come on here as well?'

But I cannot imagine actually starting a thread on it, with as ludicrous a title as the one you've given this one, and not expect to be sniggered out of the forum.

How did you think everyone was going to respond to you?! Grin

messymammy · 23/01/2012 00:32

Op this is madness.
wtaf? I've had my sister shag a boyfriend and ok got pissed about that, but surely a website is fair game?
My sister and I co exist on Facebook, I don't have her tell me what she says or who says X to her.

Honeydragon · 23/01/2012 00:36

This thread is all kinds of crazy ...pity its on a school night.

Original poster
Fems96 · 23/01/2012 00:43

As I've said before,it's not just the coming on here but everything combined!!!!!surely I'm notthe only person to feel like this!!!!

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mynewpassion · 23/01/2012 01:13

My sisters (have three of them) and I do have similar tastes. We recommended and shared clothes, hair stylists, movies, books, etc with each other while growing up. We've never stole each other boyfriends but we've set up blind dates for one another. While we may like similar things, we aren't the same people. We have different personalities. Other than an odd, "hey, I bought the same shirt", we never thought the other was copying the other. We all married within a few years of each other and started families around the same time. Want our kids to be close in age. Again, no one thought the other was copying another.

Of the four of us, I'm the only one without children. And honestly, we have our spats but they would never in their life say what you said about "having a baby, unlike her" in the way you meant. Everyone is busy. Just because your sister and I don't have kids, doesn't mean we aren't busy either.