Hi Everyone
I'll give you a basic run down. My friends husband was trying it on with me, I had no idea what he was doing at first because it was just a lot of talking over facebook. He tried to kiss me whilst drunk and begged me not to tell. I did tell him to get lost several times. He manipulated me into believing I was guilty. I hadn't done anything wrong. He had told me he loved me and things. This man was my husbands best friend from primary school so talking to him over facebook wasn't a problem for our other halves because we where all friends. Or so it seemed.
Anyway I felt like I was living a lie not letting my husband know what his best friend was up to so one night (after a few drinks with friends) I told him everything. He was furious but simply warned his friend that if he ever tried to contact me again he would tell his wife. Obviously he started getting a guilty conscience and told his wife 3 days later. He admitted everything. And I admitted I was wrong for not saying anything sooner and apologised profusely.
The next day I get a email from my friends male cousin. Threatening me. Telling me he would come to my door and attack me. Saying my friend will attack me to. He said that I must of done something to make him do it. (I did not) I blocked and deleted him off facebook as I was scared. I also blocked everyone that had anything to do with my friend and her husband. I was scared for the safety of my children so I went to visit family the next day and my husband had organised a weekend away for us to let things settle down a bit. We got home on the Sunday night and not even 20 minutes later I get a phone call from my MIL letting me know she had seen a post on facebook that looked like it was targeted at me and it made no sense. It said some dirty little fanny has hacked my other facebook. She is a dirty little whore who is to blame for everything because she lead him on. (sorry for language) Well I was shocked and assumed that she had made up the hacking thing because she hadn't got a reaction from her threats, because when MIL looked at her other facebook nothing had been wrote on it.
Fast forward 2 days she knocks on my door with the sweetest voice ever and asks if we can have a wee chat and talk about things. I simply shook my head and closed the door. I now feel like maybe I should of let her in and explained why I am so upset with her, I understand that she was upset because I hadn't told her sooner. But to blame me for her husband's actions accuse me of something I didn't do and put my childrens safety at risk by getting her family to come to my door to attack me is worse. I think.
So what do I do now? Do I leave things the way they are or email her somehow and tell her why I am so angry or ask her to come to my house.
Please someone reply. Knowone ever does lol