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AIBU for expecting her not to pay with vouchers at a restaurant?

173 replies

NJE · 11/01/2012 20:00

I'm meeting my friend the first weekend in February again. I haven't seen her for nearly three years as she was working abroad. We decided to go out for dinner and I ask her where she wants to go. She proposed an Italian restaurant because she can get vouchers on the internet for it. I feel slightly embarrassed by this but haven't said anything. Is it right to pay in a restaurant with a 50% voucher? She can easily afford it.

AIBU?

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MackerelOfFact · 12/01/2012 17:28

It's not a problem, you just show the voucher when asking for the bill usually and they type the code into the til. No fanfare. They expect people to use the vouchers, this is why they created them.

As others have said it's usually 50% off main courses or something anyway so you probably only end up saving, say, £10 on a £50 meal if you're having wine, desserts, side dishes, etc. But it's still a tenner and they're still getting your money, so it's win-win.

NJE · 12/01/2012 17:32

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ATruthUniversallyAcknowledged · 12/01/2012 17:33

Isn't there a saying that when Pizza Express stops doing vouchers we'll know the recession is over? OP, embrace the vouchers! They are very much the norm here Grin

ViviPru · 12/01/2012 17:34

It wasn't common in the UK till a couple of years ago. Its not like we have this weird restaurant-voucher-paying culture handed down from our forefathers Hmm

overmydeadbody · 12/01/2012 17:35

NJE you need to get with the times.

Restaurants give out vouchers to people, that's how people get them and use them. Nothing wrong with it, even if you've never heard of it before, it can't be that hard to get your head around surely?

M0naLisa · 12/01/2012 17:38

Yes you are being UR!

LovesBeingWearingSkinnyJeans · 12/01/2012 17:41

You could pay 100% then your friend won't have to pay anything

suburbandream · 12/01/2012 17:45

oooh I love a voucher, I do! Reminds me of my dear old mum and her Green Shield Stamps Grin

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 12/01/2012 17:48

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valiumredhead · 12/01/2012 17:55

vivian it's THE reason we shop in Tescos Grin you can change all your points into restaurant vouchers if you want!

balia · 12/01/2012 18:21

Vivian You can get as many as you want. Generally those offers only cover food, though, not drinks, so you do have to pay for those, but appart from that - essentially a free night out.

KizzyLizzy · 12/01/2012 18:27

Wouldn't bother me at all. But do remember going out for a meal in a foursome with my sister in law and partner and when it came to divide the bill she brought out a voucher to put towards their share only. Was a bit miiffed especially as we footed the bill the last time we went out.

lurkerspeaks · 12/01/2012 18:50

I'm the voucher queen. I sincerely hope I don't embarrass my friends.

I just don't see the point in paying more for things than I need to.

BrianButterfield · 12/01/2012 20:43

Ask have the vouchers on their own website!

zest01 · 12/01/2012 22:13
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iscream · 13/01/2012 04:30

Thrifty people have savings when others do not because they do not throw money away. Just because your friend can afford to not use vouchers does not mean she shouldn't if she wants to.

Boomerwang · 13/01/2012 05:02

me mum paid for a meal at Bella Italia using converted tesco vouchers and it's a bloody good thing too because the prices were shockingly high to begin with. Four people, 3 courses and a couple of drinks each = £127. I think that's mossive.

DoingHouseworkHonest · 13/01/2012 08:17

YABVU - What on earth's wrong with wanting to get money off something if you can? Even if a person has loads of money, it still makes sense!
It's stupid to pay full price if you don't have to.

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 13/01/2012 08:54

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valiumredhead · 13/01/2012 09:43

£30 a head is about right imo. I always use vouchers for places like that Grin

valiumredhead · 13/01/2012 09:44

Sending away for the telcos vouchers isn't a faff -it's easy peasy and you get a nice fat bundle of them then just use them like you would cash!

catsareevil · 13/01/2012 16:51

You can also apply for tesco vouchers online, so even less hassle.

youarekidding · 13/01/2012 17:18

YABU but you've got that!

I offered to take my friend and our DC's out (last Nov) for the day, (she drove and agreed to pay petrol costs.) My friend has been very supportive of me over some difficult times last year and then her mum was diagnosed with cancer.

I used £10 worth of Tesco vouchers, quadrupled and the entry cost me £1.95. Blush Grin

It would have been soft play, cheap pub meal if not!

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