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To scrawl all over letters from school in a red pen & give them 2/10?

84 replies

spiderslegs · 04/01/2012 21:04

DS started school today & came home with a Large Brown Envelope with the word URGENT scrawled across the front.

He was very concerned that I opened & read it. Upon doing so, it contained a wad of 'official' forms that I had already signed & returned in September and the grammar & syntax had NOT improved since the last time I signed them.

Not one apostrophe, tautologies, pluralised singles (wellie anyone?) & garbled, barely legible syntax.

So AIBU to return them signed (again) with corrections in red?

The school is rated outstanding by OFSTED & all letters carried the teacher's or Headmistress' name.

OP posts:
southeastastra · 04/01/2012 21:05

yeah go on do it

Hippymum89 · 04/01/2012 21:06

lol, yanbu :-)

scurryfunge · 04/01/2012 21:07

Do it, do it.

LittleWaveyLines · 04/01/2012 21:08

Do it! I'm a secondary school teacher and it annoys me intensely when I have to hand out poorly written letters to be taken home...

In defense though most are written in a hurry while trying to do loads of other things during breaktime, or similar. But still... Grin

cheekyendto2011monkey · 04/01/2012 21:08

Love it.

[goes off to google meaning of tautology, but at least I try]

cheekyendto2011monkey · 04/01/2012 21:10

Have googled it and still unclear, what is an example of a tautology?

passmyglass · 04/01/2012 21:11

agree with wavey. I'm a teacher too.

scurryfunge · 04/01/2012 21:12

Free gift is an example. A gift is free and it doesn't need saying twice.

33goingon64 · 04/01/2012 21:12

In a week's time DS starts at a nursery which has signs on the various class doors saying 'blue monkey's' and 'red monkey's', etc. How long should leave him to settle in before I point out the apostrophe rule to the staff?

spiderslegs · 04/01/2012 21:12

Cheeky - Please be absolutely sure that you are clear that you child may not eat nuts.

Either one would have sufficed.

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 04/01/2012 21:13

You'll look like a pompous arse. If you're happy with that, go ahead.

If you have concerns, why not see the teacher in person?

cheekyendto2011monkey · 04/01/2012 21:14

I have got it now!

cheekyendto2011monkey · 04/01/2012 21:15

Thanks guys, every day is a school day :)

LittleWaveyLines · 04/01/2012 21:16

ssgoingon64 straight away! - I have been known to correct apostrophes on notices and signs. Drives me mad.

LittleWaveyLines · 04/01/2012 21:17

Oh and a particular tautological hate: moment in time.

If it's a moment, assuming you are not in a physics lesson, then it is already about time.

Grrrrrrr

OhDeeeeeryMe · 04/01/2012 21:19

yadnbu my dcs primary school has exactly the same problem, the grammar in their newsletters is so bad that it would be better if a year six child typed them out...!!

spiderslegs · 04/01/2012 21:21

Lying I know I'll look like a pompous arse - but why should I let an educator (who educates) not be picked up on their mistakes when they are meant to be teaching children? If I don't, who will? So our children will be similarly ill-educated.

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Whatmeworry · 04/01/2012 21:22

Oh please do it :)

themothershipcalling · 04/01/2012 21:24

Not school but I work for a major international company and the notice in our Ladies regarding washing hands drives me mad - ' Stop colds. And flu'. I mean really?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 04/01/2012 21:25

OP... You SHOULD let them know. Pick them up on their mistakes by all means, but that method looks a bit silly, snidey - and sorry to say, cowardly. Go and have a face to face with the teacher/headteacher about it. You're probably not the only one concerned. It isn't acceptable, you're completely right about that.

LittleWaveyLines · 04/01/2012 21:25

Although in our school letters are word-processed onto the school headed paper by the receptionists, often from a quickly typed email. They frequently don't spot typos or missing punctuation.

So it's not really the teacher's fault, sometimes.

ElaineBenes · 04/01/2012 21:29

Wow, that stuff drives me up the wall. The school's meant to be an example! Go on, do it :o

spiderslegs · 04/01/2012 21:33

Lying, you are right, I am going to, I have corrected (in black pen) but will say when I return them.

I may be feeling sensitive due to very irritating & patronisng behaviour from DS's teacher during his visiting days last term and all-round lack of communication from the school already.

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Crapricorn · 04/01/2012 21:37

Your use of capitals in the opening post is rather erratic. If you are proceed as suggested you need to be very sure of the accuracy of you correspondence.

resolutecheekymonkey · 04/01/2012 21:37

Have name changed in honour of this thread as my resolution is going to be 'if I don't understand....ask'