Hello all!
My friend's younger brother sadly passed away on New Year's day.
Her close friends (including me) thought it would be nice to get her something together, as well as make a donation to the family's chosen charity.
Is a (quite expensive) necklace with her brother's initial on appropriate? The initial is a bit swirly so it's not obvious, meaning she won't get people asking why she's wearing it and have to go through the explanation.
Taste-wise, I know she'll like it, but after canvassing some opinions some people say they think it's a bit inappropriate.
What do you think? I was having some doubts and now can't decide if it's a good idea.
Thanks in advance. . . we want to do something nice for her but obviously don't wish to offend anyone in doing so.