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AIBU?

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To be having masses of amazing sex with a hotter younger model...

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washingonawednesday · 27/12/2011 21:58

Have an 11 month old son, husband ran off with another woman when our son was only 3 months old after 13 years together and left me high and dry with no money as a single mum and for support from my parents I had to move 300 miles away from all friends and my job.

I have not sunk. I've lost coming up to 5 stone, enrolled in a college course for the new year, made some friends and have been dating a younger hotter model for the last 2 months. My son is adorable and doesnt appear to be troubled by the fact that daddy isn't around. I am still breastfeeding and feel pretty damn awesome!

No need to whine about MIL or exDH or any other seasonal troubles.

So for Christmas this year I have mainly been having hot sex. I am gloating!

That is all!

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ledkr · 27/12/2011 22:33

Well done op
My dh of 18 yrs left me 7 yrs ago with 4 kids and breast cancer.
3 yrs ago on xmas eve i married the most gorgeous handsome man 10 yrs younger telling him we'd have no kids of our own as i was 41.
Two years later i had our baby girl at 44! We continue to be ridiculously happy.
I hope you will be too xx

WorraLiberty · 27/12/2011 22:33

How old is he? Do you go out on dates? Does he make you laugh? Does he have children of his own? What are his family and friends like?

WorraLiberty · 27/12/2011 22:34

ledkr What a wonderful story!

Congratulations

MrsSnow · 27/12/2011 22:35

OMG your ex must be crying his eyes out

ledkr · 27/12/2011 22:36

Aw shucks worra thanks

WorraLiberty · 27/12/2011 22:37

I was so excited reading that, I lost my santa hat

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washingonawednesday · 27/12/2011 22:49

Ledka- stories like yours are what made me take the bull by the horns in the first place.

His family are lovely and treat my son like their own grandson. Hotter model has a 2 year old so he is really excellent with my son (and there is nothing more sexy in my book than a man who is good with children, particularly mine!)

We laugh all the time and my lot love him

Not as many dates out as we'd like, but 2 single parents with 2 under 2 are not that able to get out much unsuprisingly, but we get playdates with the kids so it's always fun. (and the babies are pdown by 8 and there's lots of fun to be had at home hence the weight loss!)

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WorraLiberty · 27/12/2011 22:51

I'm really pleased for you and I don't even know you

Seriously though, it's nice to hear.

Wittsend13 · 27/12/2011 22:57

You know what? Thanks OP. Your story is pretty much what I'm going through atm. So happy to see someone come out the other side and be happy. You've made me even more determined to lose this 3 stone. THANK YOU! :)

moonface73 · 27/12/2011 23:00

Fabulous, good for you, merry Christmas!

ledkr · 27/12/2011 23:04

Washing-I lost a lot of weight too,then went blonde and scored me toy boy.

Sometime after we met i bumped into ex in a bar and he spent ten minutes telling me how he made a mistake,still loved me bla bla he got really cocky and told my friend that he could have me back like that (clicked his fingers) I then took him to meet new toyboy-6ft4 fit and handsome-i was saying "are you mad?" Ab Fab style as i gestured at new model. It was a funny moment.
He also booked a weekend in Spain to "talk" so i changed the name and took my sister
So glad to hear things work ot for people.
Shouldnt you be shagging?

TheDetective · 27/12/2011 23:06

I'd like to say I did the same also! Lost 4 stone, got a new look, new me, and new hot younger model!

It can be done! Hot younger model is still here 2 years later :D

baubleybobbityhat · 27/12/2011 23:10

Crikey ledkr.

P.s. what happened to your other three kids on your profile?

hatesponge · 27/12/2011 23:11

Have to say am most envious of you all meeting these great men...3 years of singledom here and not even a glimpse of a half decent man in that time!

MissPricklePants · 27/12/2011 23:21

hatesponge i have been single for 2.5 years and havent met anybody, decent or otherwise!

ledkr · 27/12/2011 23:40

Well they are 22 24 and 26 baubly so i must admit i left them off the "how many dc's" bit

hatesponge disclaimer,i was on my own for a few yrs before. Im glad i had that time tbh. I met dh when i wasnt bothered if i did or not. Cliche i know but true.

ledkr · 27/12/2011 23:42

In fact the ds's could actually be the next younger men.

Mya2403 · 28/12/2011 06:15

Good on ya babe, ride that disco stick!.

WelshMoth · 28/12/2011 08:41

Immense, ladies, just immense.

Not many AIBU's make me smile. This one has.

ledkr · 28/12/2011 11:05

My younger model is currently cleaning the kitchen and has sent me up for a bath cos i was "up in the night"
I actually took a paracetamol to dd1 for a sore throat.It took me 2 minutes. Bless. its as if hes pleased to have me!!! Wtf?

HugosGoatee · 28/12/2011 11:08

Congratulations! Lovely story.

OhdearNigel · 28/12/2011 11:11

That's the best AIBU I've seen in a long time. Atta girl !

tethersend · 28/12/2011 11:16

That's all very well OP, but are you happy?

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