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I AM right, I know I am, please will you all come and confirm it?

222 replies

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 22:03

Ds is learning to write and is forming his number 5 like an S. I have tried to teach him to do the downstroke first, then the roundy bit, then take his pencil off the paper and go back to do the top flat bit (all very technical, hope that makes sense). This is the right way, yes?

Dh says this is madness, and he should just start with the top flat bit and continue to the downstroke and the roundy bit all in one go, so writing it just like an S but making it look like a 5 by being a bit more angular about it. Surely this is wrong? I have vague memories of being severely chastised for forming a 5 like that as a child and being told it was lazy and would look like an S. Dh convinced he is right. Neither of us will back down. We are probably scarring ds for life. I put it to you (to tell me I am right).

And yes, the long winter evenings do fly by in our house Wink

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EllenJaneisnotmyname · 28/11/2011 23:11

Ones are straight down (unless you are shh, French)

Fairenuff · 28/11/2011 23:11

Love that explanation kissassangel although DH raised his eyebrows and muttered something about ballpoint pens, dinosaurs and the ark?

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 23:12

Rustybear, I'm going to advance a new hypothesis - all fans of Fairport and their ilk write their 5's the right way. And are generally correct about pretty much everything.

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RustyBear · 28/11/2011 23:14

Fairenuff - a curly 2 looks like this. I used to make them into swans when I was little.

UnexpectedOrange · 28/11/2011 23:15

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Moln · 28/11/2011 23:16

aren't biros French?

that crazy fountain pen hating, number violating nation?

(apart for the 7s with the cross through them, because that's the right way - obviously)

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 28/11/2011 23:17

That's what I meant, loop at the foot and wrong, wrong, wrong!

Jux · 28/11/2011 23:18

I agree with you. you are right. Sadly, they see, to teach them to do it the s-way in school nowadays. As horrible as cursive writing, and l;ooks utterly ignorant.

FontSnob · 28/11/2011 23:20

Flat top last for me too.

Fairenuff · 28/11/2011 23:21

Thanks Rusty and Orange awww those 2s are just too cute. I want to do them like that now.

Moln · 28/11/2011 23:26

Fairenuff you're loosing the run of yourself there. Don't do it. You'll be on the doing all you numbers wrong soon.

ihatecbeebies · 28/11/2011 23:28

This is how my son has been taught in class to form the number 5:

"Down, big fat tummy, hat on top."

So you are right and your dh is wrong Grin

TuftyFinch · 28/11/2011 23:29

I write my 5 like an S. I am shit. I teach adults. I write 5 and S on the board a lot. I say FFS a lot. My teachers spent 100 years telling me off because my 5 looks like an S. I didn't take it to heart and it doesn't constantly hound me to this day (much).

I don't think you should make it into the biggest issue in the world.
I think you should probably do it how the teacher does to avoid confusion?

I really should go to bed.

Moln · 28/11/2011 23:31

"I don't think you should make it into the biggest issue in the world"

Are you saying it's an over reaction on my part to file for divorce because DH does it wrong?

verlainechasedrimbauds · 28/11/2011 23:32

Bics are French biros, and most of our biros are bics. Pissibly.

You are, of course, correct OP and your DH is very wrong.

BaronessBomburst · 28/11/2011 23:34

You are right, and DH is wrong.

But its a bit like learning to drive: you learn how to do it properly, and then once you've passed, you don't.

and starting sentences with 'but' Grin

TheMoistWorldOfSeptimusQuench · 28/11/2011 23:34

Leige I agree.

I do my 5s properly like you
And I love Fairport. And I'm always right

Fairenuff · 28/11/2011 23:34

Moln you're right of course, thanks for that. I got carried away by the flambouyancy of it all. A moment of madness is all it was. I'm ok now.

CardyMow · 28/11/2011 23:38

Now I really AM a lone voice. I write my 5's in two parts, like the OP. BUT I do the 'hat' first, and then I do the straight down bit and the curve.

Fairenuff · 28/11/2011 23:41

How's the spreadsheet going Liege? I have to go to bed now but look forward to seeing the results tomorrow.

TuftyFinch · 28/11/2011 23:41

Moln divorce is there for a reason.

Maybe, could you disagree over, erm, maybe...world domination?
Tumble dryers?
I'd probably let the 5/S issue go.
Maybe.
Or not?
It is an issue that needs addressing.
DS is learning but we havn't come across this conundrum yet.
i will wait in anticipation. Anticipationally.

Moln · 28/11/2011 23:41

Glad to hear Fairenuff. I can sleep easy now.

Exactly verlainechasedrimbauds, I bet that Bic fellow went around stealing people's fountain pens and leaving the evil can-go-around-corners-biro

Leaving number formation up the crick without a piddle

Jux · 28/11/2011 23:42

my daughter sings several Fairport songs, so obviously, as her mother and having encouraged her admiration for Fairport, I am also right about everything.

tottiesfortea · 28/11/2011 23:42

I write my 5, back bone first, curve, then put the hat on, does that make sense? Confused

Moln · 28/11/2011 23:44

No no HuntyCat there is someone else on this thread that admitted to doing that.

She's been exiled though.

TuftyFinch we're decided to give it another go, but to make it easier we're not going to talk about 5s every again. I'm going to break it to DS2 in the morning that he's going to either be 6 or 4 again as he can no longer be that unmentionable age anymore