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AIBU?

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I AM right, I know I am, please will you all come and confirm it?

222 replies

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 22:03

Ds is learning to write and is forming his number 5 like an S. I have tried to teach him to do the downstroke first, then the roundy bit, then take his pencil off the paper and go back to do the top flat bit (all very technical, hope that makes sense). This is the right way, yes?

Dh says this is madness, and he should just start with the top flat bit and continue to the downstroke and the roundy bit all in one go, so writing it just like an S but making it look like a 5 by being a bit more angular about it. Surely this is wrong? I have vague memories of being severely chastised for forming a 5 like that as a child and being told it was lazy and would look like an S. Dh convinced he is right. Neither of us will back down. We are probably scarring ds for life. I put it to you (to tell me I am right).

And yes, the long winter evenings do fly by in our house Wink

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MrsHarryPearce · 28/11/2011 22:08

YANBU and you are also write (see what I did there?). Were you taught by nuns too?

manticlimactic · 28/11/2011 22:08

As long as it looks like a 5 what does it matter?

MaureenMLove · 28/11/2011 22:08

Oh dear! That didn't go well, did it! GrinWink

DH is right!

Trills · 28/11/2011 22:08

Why would you want to write a letter (or number) in two strokes when it can be done in one?

YABU

Iggly · 28/11/2011 22:08

I do it the way your Dh does.

How does your school teach it? I can see your method would help your DS but I'm sure he won't be writing S instead of 5 forever!

WhiteTrash · 28/11/2011 22:08

Im with your DH.

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 22:08

Nooooooooo!!! Really? I have been writing my 5s wrong for 30 years?

I have just tried to write a 5 the ridiculous way that you are all supporting and it doesn't even look like a 5.

I may have to go and gibber quietly in a corner (and never show this to dh).

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Ghoulwithadragontattoo · 28/11/2011 22:08

YANBU. Your husband is wrong and you should show DS how to do it properly.

greensnail · 28/11/2011 22:08

I agree with you, that's definitely how I was taught.

Nanny0gg · 28/11/2011 22:09

The OP is correct.
There are two strokes to a '5'.
Down and curved and then the 'hat'.
Anything else is an 's'.

pixiestix · 28/11/2011 22:09

I'm with your DH, sorry!

Nonsense1825 · 28/11/2011 22:09

No I'm with you, I was taught to do it that way also, you're not alone!

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 22:09

Ah, MrsHarryPearce, the voice of reason in a sea of madness. No nuns but I did go to a very Catholic primary school for a while...

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ExcitedElectrons · 28/11/2011 22:09

Your DH is right.

bamboobutton · 28/11/2011 22:10

i write it flat top first usually, somtimes write it like an S if i am rushing.

why does it matter how it's written as long as it is legible?

MrsChristmasDB · 28/11/2011 22:10

DH is right !

Maybe it would help if you broke it up a bit ? Do the 'top' bit first, so along from the right and down, then stop. Then do a curve, (or back to front curly c Wink) and done !

I found it's one of those things that eventually 'comes'.

I wouldn't worry too much about it being 'perfect' if DS is writing and you know it's supposed to be a 5, then that's all that matters ! Smile

Yama · 28/11/2011 22:10

YANBU

I do my 5's like you.

Your dh is wrong.

LiegeAndLief · 28/11/2011 22:10

Oh thank god, more people doing it the right way. The world hasn't gone as mad as I thought. Still not showing this to dh though.

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thisisyesterday · 28/11/2011 22:10

i have never met anyone who does a 5 all in one stroke!" it's weird

mousymouse · 28/11/2011 22:11

you are right and your dh is WRONG

Bossybritches22 · 28/11/2011 22:11

Mrs HP - I was taught by nuns...did they have the monopoly on 2-part numbers??? Grin

PacificDogwood · 28/11/2011 22:11

You are Right, OP. Your H is Wrong - leave the bastard Wink!

ramblinrose · 28/11/2011 22:11

YANBU.
I do it the same way as you!

Nanny0gg · 28/11/2011 22:12

And I hope none of you let your children form their numbers starting at the bottom...

UnexpectedOrange · 28/11/2011 22:12

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