we are trying to sort out maintainance and it's not going well
he has just informed me that he has just joined the pension scheme at work so obviously he now won't be able to agree as much money as he has less net income
I've just checked and he is absolutely correct
what an absolute t*@t!!!!!!
I can't afford to pay into my company pension scheme ffs
I also can't afford to let the kids continue in swimming lessons, take them on holiday, buy them new clothes (it's a good job I've got a niece 2 yrs older than DD1 and I have 2 girls!)
the only outgoings he has is his car ffs and he dresses in branded clothes all the time -he could easily afford to pay and it is pissing me right off
also he has spent £150 on them each for crimbo but on nothing useful -like a coat or a pair of shoes!