I am a SAHM but work 4 hours at a weekend to earn extra money to pay my bills etc. My DS is with his dad..my DH..while I work. My previous employers offered me 5 hours on a Saturday which for a few weeks now has been good & worked well. However...they would like to make it more permanent but my DH won't give up the afternoon to have our DS..only 1 weekend a month. So this would mean me relying on my mum & MIL to watch our DS. It just seems a bit unfair to me? AIBU though?