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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think all the 'cancel the take-away, make your own' 'Fakeaway' articles/recipes

72 replies

WoTmania · 18/11/2011 09:45

completely miss the point?

We don't often get takeaway but when we do it's after a stupidly busy week (like this week) that involves DH not seeing the DC at all and me doing everything child/house oriented.

TA means that a)I don't have to cook and b)washing up = 2plates, 2 knives, 2 forks and two wine glasses rather than cooking and washing up as usual.
Or does everyone else get takeaway for the Gourmet Experience?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 18/11/2011 09:47

YABU... Takeaway may be an 'occasional treat for busy people' but is too often 'bad habit for lazy people'.

caramelwaffle · 18/11/2011 09:49

Yabu

melrose · 18/11/2011 09:50

YANBU I totally agree. We had fish and chips last night because I was too tired to even think what to cook, let alone cook! (i usually cook from scratch and probably have a takeaway once a month)

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 09:51

I LURVE an Indian Takeaway, but my GOD has it got expensive. My own curries are brilliant (naturally) but they're just not the same. Sad

Uh. I think YABU and YANBU.

LordAlconleighsEntrenchingTool · 18/11/2011 09:54

I only order takeaways when I can;t be arsed. I have given up on ordering Chinese takeaway food as it is invariably VILE and the same old gloopy crap wherever you go, and my curries are far better than any I can get from an Indian takeaway, so resent spending the best part of £40 on tasteless slop.

So when I do get a takeaway it is invariably fish and chip or a pizza when the thought of opening the fridge would send me in a decline.

Pootles2010 · 18/11/2011 09:54

I know what you mean, but I guess there must be lots of people who think they can't make curries/chinese whatever, when they actually can!

Also in the 'current climate' (god I hate that phrase) it's nice to have an alternative if you can't afford your usual takeaway.

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 09:54

I've gorn right orf Chinese food lately.

WoTmania · 18/11/2011 09:58

okay can see where you lot who think IABU are coming from BUT anyone can make a curry (really, anyone can - if all else fails follow a sodding recipe) and I just think the articles miss the point.
I suppose I'm coming form the POV of I can cook it if I want to but it takes time and affort and I'm tired and don't want to be faced with saucepans to wash up later in the evening/the next morning having cooked. DH normally does the washing up but this week he's been out of the house13-14 hours a day and is also tired and fed up when he gets home.

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valiumredhead · 18/11/2011 10:01

I don't understand take away really, it's expensive and the choice in the UK is very limited ime. I probably have it once every six months when I get together with a group of friends but am usually disappointed tbh,

Apart from fish and chips - they are YUMMY! Grin

BelleEnd · 18/11/2011 10:02

I think it's about fat content too. Cook Yourself Thin does bloody amazing KFC style chicken pieces coated in cornflakes instead of breadcrumbs... They really are similar to KFC.

NorfolkNChance · 18/11/2011 10:02

OP YANBU.

My DH makes a wicked curry that is identical to the one we get from the takeaway but it takes him a couple of hours with all the prep let alone the clear up after.

Chinese is much quicker but again heavy on the prep/clean up side.

So if we have a day where we simply cannot face all the prep/mess we get a takeaway. Simples.

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 10:02

But the articles aren't aimed at people who just CBA to cook one night, are they? They're aimed (I think) at those who want the taste of a takeaway, but can't afford it.

WoTmania · 18/11/2011 10:04

val - we're quite lucky to have 2 very good indian TAs near us (they are attached to restaurants, don't know if this makes a difference) and a half decent chinese which are all fairly inexpensive. usually comes in at £10-12 (I know know, making it is cheaper but I don't think I've mentioned that I'm tired and fed upGrin)

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DooinMeCleanin · 18/11/2011 10:06

DH gets take aways for the taste. In the past he has been known to ask if I want an Indian for supper while he is still eating his dinner Hmm

I find it difficult to understand how someone can be thinking of their next meal, whilst still eating their current one.

He likes the curry I make but says he gets 'cravings' for 'proper' indian curry. I was begining to think that the local Indian was putting crack in their Madras. He now gets 'cravings' for Chinese food. These cravings started at around the time I started working in one and started getting free food Hmm. He eats the fatty, carb ridden, greasy chinese food I bring home and makes me a stir fry or roast chicken and salad for when I get in. Everyone is happy.

It's greed imo and no amount of DIY takeaway recipes is going to change him or the countless others like him so YANBU.

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 10:08

Dooin - I think it's the ghee in the Indian Takeaways that is addictive.

I bought a tin and am scared to open it

IgnoringTheChildren · 18/11/2011 10:09

YANBU - takeaway in our house is also usually bought because we're too knackered/busy doing other things to cook and while I do appreciate our local takeouts it's hardly a "gourmet experience".

Also isn't it a bit pointless making "fakeaway" as none of the recipes will be even remotely as full of fat/salt/sugar/MSG etc as a real takeaway so clearly it won't taste the same/as "nice"?

I do understand the concept is getting people who don't usually cook to try it and the idea is that they'll be more likely to try making something they eat on a regular basis. I also wonder how successful this ends up being when the dish they make so clearly doesn't taste like the takeaway food they know and love...

Oblomov · 18/11/2011 10:11

You make a better curry than the take away ? really? I can't. like Norfolk's dh, I take hours to make mine and its nice. full of large bits of chicken, but , no patch on takeaway.
And I've treid all sorts. Pataks paste, even buying cumin, coriander individually, but all to no avail.

I agree with OP. Its not the actual quality food we're buying!! its the ease, the convenience, the too tired, can't be bothered to cook, and even less to wash up, ease of it, that is what we are paying for.

BupcakesandCunting · 18/11/2011 10:11

YANBU

Also, you can't lace your salt and pepper chicken with MSG at home.

Mmmmm, MSG.

Hullygully · 18/11/2011 10:14

Chinese food is tasteless slime. Fact.

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 18/11/2011 10:14

I've gone right off Chinese food as well Shirley I wasn't ever really over the moon with it but now I can't be arsed at all.

Oblomov · 18/11/2011 10:15

mmmmmmmmmmmm MSG mmmmmmmmmm
Yum yum, in my tum Grin
do they sell it so that we can sprinkle it over our cornflakes ?

BupcakesandCunting · 18/11/2011 10:16

I was never keen on Chinese food, always preferred Indian then, right, a new Chinese take away opened in the village and I made the mistake of sampling their wares. Bleedin' lovely it is. It is the main reason that I have five bellies.

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 10:16

dickie! If I never ate Chinese again I would be Happy. That's right.

It doesn't even seem to matter if it costs a FORTUNE either.

ShirleyKnot · 18/11/2011 10:17

Oblomov - I think you CAN buy MSG. I keep looking at this umami paste.

PreviouslyonLost · 18/11/2011 10:18

Oblomov Pssst...just for you here's the real secret ingredient to an authentic home-made curry, Gormeh Sabzi...buy it online Smile

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