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AIBU?

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that a muffin is not a cake?

112 replies

notpodd · 17/11/2011 21:00

I was after something fattening, and DH was off to the shops, so I requested a "rich decadent slice of cake". He jokingly said "so carrot cake then?" and was corrected with suggestions like "black forest gateaux" and "chocolate mouse cake". He promptly returned with a double chocolate muffin and does not understand why I am miffed? AIBU

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SoupDragon · 17/11/2011 22:07

Its not a really different baking technique. You mix the ingredients and shove them in the oven. It's like claiming fruit cake can't be a cake because its not made the same as a sponge.

But anyhow... OP, don't be an ungrateful moo Wink

notpodd · 17/11/2011 22:11

@Chippy - that has his reasoning on getting the muffin - he didn't want to buy a whole cake apparently. He was thinking of me...

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dustwhatdust · 17/11/2011 22:16

yanbu

  • those double chocolate muffins are horrid !
I'd have been disapointed too - they would be the absolute last choice - the sort of cake( or not !) version of garage flowers !
OriginalPoster · 17/11/2011 22:23

We'll have the muffin if you don't want it?

FredFredGeorge · 17/11/2011 22:30

Muffins are a bread (you don't need yeast to make a bread or indeed any leavening agent), but you should really have been clearer, as many other cakes are bread too - the gateaux probably, the rodent cake probably not although I'm not completely sure of the ingredients of that one.

Still YANBU, a muffin is certainly not decadent, so didn't meet your description.

And yes you can buy single or double slices of cakes in most supermarkets these days, so he was pretty crap for not finding them.

moonface73 · 17/11/2011 23:14

YADNBU!! A muffin is not a lovely, yummy cake. A muffin is a stupid muffin and often not very chocolatey and quite disappointing. I'd have liked an almond slice, you know the sort with jam in, is that a cake?

lottiegb · 17/11/2011 23:15

Muffins are not cakes, they are American breakfast food and significantly less rich or sweet (e.g. bran muffins), that we've misunderstood and mutated into half-muffin half-cakes, poor things.

I understand your disappointment, though can sympathise with the confusion, as British choc muffins are quite rich. I think perhaps the word 'gooey' might have helped.

LineRunnerSaturnalia · 17/11/2011 23:18

I had a muffin in the USA once. Crap.

PigletJohn · 17/11/2011 23:20

Are you talking about what we in England call a muffin, or what Americans call an English Muffin, which is quite different?

MoreBeta · 17/11/2011 23:21

A muffin is not a cake. It is an oily bun.

I made a chocoalte tort the other day. No flour at all but 200g of 70% chocolate, 200g of ground almonds, 200g of ground hazelnuts, pack of butter, eggs.

Now that is a cake.

Bunbaker · 17/11/2011 23:30

YABU.
A muffin is a type of cake IMO - it has the taste and texture of a sponge cake. I have a recipe book that just has recipes for muffins and cupcakes so the author obviously thinks they belong to the same family.

I feel sorry for your poor OH. I would be miffed at your ungratefulness as well. You need to be more specific next time.

mumeeee · 17/11/2011 23:46

YABU, A muffin is a cake and a double chocolate one is very yummy,

Pekka · 17/11/2011 23:52

YABU, muffin is a tiny cake. Often too dry, unfortunately.

gettingbigger123 · 17/11/2011 23:55

YANBU.

A muffin is definately not a cake, it is most definately a bread item that you eat either as a sandwich or dunked in soup.

Yes I am from the NW - I once had to explain what an oven bottom muffin was to an American who had no concept of muffins other than English Muffins which bear little resemblance to proper muffins.

However, seeing as you seem to be talking about double chocolate muffins, then YABU as they are a cake, merely not as decadent as you would have liked.

dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:06

In manchester a muffin is a bread barmcake :)

PigletJohn · 18/11/2011 00:16

What is a barm?

dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:20

BARMCAKE

PigletJohn · 18/11/2011 00:28
Confused what I'd call a soft roll
dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:30

They have different names all over the country.

In Manchester if you ask for a sausage muffin or an egg muffin you get a barmcake/soft roll.

PigletJohn · 18/11/2011 00:30

what I call a muffin

dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:32

OK,is that a crumpet?

PigletJohn · 18/11/2011 00:36

though some would disagree

dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:36

We have tea cakes with currants in that sometimes get called muffins.

This breadlingo is more widespread than I thought.

dancingmustard · 18/11/2011 00:37

LOL@Sid James the comedy god :)