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to ask you what pantyliners are for?

143 replies

AlwaysWondering · 14/11/2011 22:48

I really don't know.
Blush
Surely the gusset is there for a bit of moisture leakage?
Or a sanitary towel for periods?
Or a pad for urine leakage?
My DM was useless at this sort of thing.
So, please explain.

OP posts:
Stupify64 · 15/11/2011 00:09

I'd have thought so, but spermy sex towel makes me think that it's already so. Spermy, not a towel.

dreamingbohemian · 15/11/2011 00:12

Ewwww sex towel. Almost as bad as the wank sock!

Aftex sex you should really be going to the loo (to prevent cystitis) so can clean up then.

I'm still not convinced by the OP. AlwaysWondering? Thanks for your candidaness?

Grin
Stupify64 · 15/11/2011 00:13

Oooo. My name was chosen in haste & I've wanted a better one. To be addressed as Spermysextowel. Now just have to work out how to do it.

BertieBotts · 15/11/2011 00:14

Oh yes we have a spermy sex towel. It doesn't get washed every time Blush but it doesn't come out of the bedroom so it never accidentally gets used for anything else. Used to use baby wipes but they got expensive. Terry nappies get used for this purpose - and between the legs cloth, and for sitting on if naked or wearing PJ trousers after sex too. I also use them as nappy change mats, emergency carpet spill cleanups, toilet training accidents, cat sick cleanups, anything disgusting really. (Though also as emergency hand towels and tea towels Blush) They get chucked on a hot wash so don't worry about it really. Also used them as emergency maternity pads after childbirth and to put under DS when he was newborn and co sleeping. And under me to soak up milk leaking.

I don't think they've ever actually been used as nappies...

Stupify64 · 15/11/2011 00:27

We used them when GPs were sitting on our laps (guinea pigs, not grand parents) but I those 'GP' and DM thought that meant that they were the ones she was supposed to take away & covert into handy towels for downstairs loo.

Stupify64 · 15/11/2011 00:29

Sorry, I marked those

porcamiseria · 15/11/2011 09:05

period
discharge
urine leakage

after my 9.5lb baby the third is quite an issue

DesperatelySeekingPomBears · 15/11/2011 09:10

I use them in the dogs sanitary pants, when she's in season. They work a treat and a pack of 50 from Tesco is about a quarter of the price of a pack of 10 from the pet shop. Sorted.

NeedABrew · 15/11/2011 09:11

I thought it was crispysextowel?

Bugsy2 · 15/11/2011 09:25

Crispyspermysextowel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I see where my life has gone wrong now. Where in the bedroom is this item kept? Under bed, under pillow?

I think panty liners are icky, but then I hate STs too.

Thank heavens for condoms - girl rolls over & goes to sleep, boy has to mess about removing condom & if he's not a really lazy arse get up & flush it down the loo.

BertieBotts · 15/11/2011 11:31

I don't thinkI you're supposed to flush coggins down the toilet!

Meta4 · 15/11/2011 11:38

For lining your panties.

I wear them everyday (I also wash everyday, thank you very much!) I'm used to them and if I don't wear them I just feel a bit...gross.

Calabria · 15/11/2011 11:40

I used them when I was provided with one pair of uniform trousers to wear at work which had to last a week. I didn't have a washing machine at home and the only launderette wasn't open in the evening (small town). It meant that my trousers were not fusty by Friday!

FloydieDoydie · 15/11/2011 11:44

Does anyone use the miniature pantyliners for thongs?

Blu · 15/11/2011 11:47

Apart from some particular moments, for upping the ante on neuroses about the vagina and it's functions, while raising the profits of Procter and gamble, blocking the sewer system or clogging landfill.

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 15/11/2011 12:03

erm, condoms aren't supposed to go down the loo!!!

EXP and i had a crustyspermysext-shirt that belonged to his sister who took it back out of his room one day before he had a chance to wash it

catsmother · 15/11/2011 12:07

This is a perennial topic on MN and I'm always rather taken aback by the level of snottiness directed towards women who use liners by other women fortunate enough to have well-behaved bodies. There's always some allegation of "paranoia", and often an allusion of "grubbiness" about women who use them as if they choose to do that rather than wash regularly.

Apart from, as already discussed, the start and end of periods, pregnancy, or post-sex, the plain truth of it for some women is that we "suffer" significant discharge every day of the month - regardless of being preggers or our sex life. This has been the case for me my whole adult life and no, there's nothing wrong with me, as in having an infection of some sort. This does however mean that (and yes, I'm thoroughly pissed off about it) there's a lot of moisture about (sorry if TMI) and thanks very much, I don't want to sit in it all day ... with the embarrassing/mortifying prospect of it leaking through to the crotch of my jeans, or making a mark on my skirt. With a liner though, you just whip it out and change it as required and there's then no chance of stained clothes ... which also means I can wear my jeans for more than one day.

Sure ... I'm not happy about paying out for liners but there's really no other choice unless you want to change your knicks 2 or 3 times a day, but what really pisses me off on these conversations is the predictable criticism which always surfaces. When I was younger I felt ashamed to have to use liners - unlike, it seemed, most of my friends - and in time honoured self-conscious teenage fashion did indeed feel there was something "wrong" with me despite the doctor confirming otherwise. It's taken me several years to get (some way) over that, but it's hardly surprising I felt the way I did when other women can be so critical, mean or micky-taking about the subject. Surely it's not beyond imagination to recognise that some women genuinely need to use liners and aren't being precious and/or succumbing to advertising ?

Bugsy2 · 15/11/2011 12:07

Why aren't condoms supposed to go down the loo?

sheeplikessleep · 15/11/2011 12:14

I have to use a pantyliner for a few days just before I ovulate. I wish I didn't, but I'd rather that than 'so wet have to change them' knickers.

YusMilady · 15/11/2011 12:18

But...but...surely pantyliners are for making one pair of knicks last all week when you're at a festival? On the same principle as men turning their boxers inside out to get another week's day's wear out of them?

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 15/11/2011 12:18

i'm guessing because they end up being pumped into the sea.

but this is from durex website. no reason given as to why though.

sheeplikessleep · 15/11/2011 12:20

I'd also heard not to put them down the loo.

HardCheese · 15/11/2011 12:20

Sorry catsmother, that was me further up the thread being snide, but I was primarily attacking the advertising for the scented pantyliner, which does tend to focus on the ideal of the lovely Glade-scented vagina and the inferiority of the dour, unscented common-or-garden variety (which I do think cynically stokes fear in women about their normal bodily functions).

I do realise there are real reasons why actual flesh-and-blood women use the non-scented variety. The scented ones sound to me like both a marketing racket and a recipe for irritated labia.

FloydieDoydie · 15/11/2011 12:21

I'm certainly not being critical of pantyliners or the ladies who need them!

I'm not exactly dry down there at all times myself, although I don't wear liners, as pads of any kind irritate my fanjo Blush

I just wondered if anyone used the teenyweeny liners Grin

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 15/11/2011 12:24

floydie i have tried the teeny weeny ones...once. i think there are still fragments embedded Blush