This isn't a thread about a thread. It's common in a lot of threads - but I was reading the MIL/New York thread and am absolutely astounded by how many women think that they have the final say in these matters.
'He wouldn't be going if he was my DH'
'I'd find and destroy his passport'
What. The. Actual. Fuck.
Who do you think you are? Why does being in a relationship mean that you can or cannot dictate to your partner how they live their life?
It's like the whole... Train Your Man school of thought - as if they're like dogs who have to be taught who's boss 
Do you really want a man that allows himself to be dominated and henpecked like that?
WELL DO YOU???
Discuss 