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To want to go and kick this man right up his ignorant arse

151 replies

OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 08:46

I am rushing off to work so sorry if this has been done.
I am also sorry for the DM link but they are rather good and this sort of story.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2058976/Future-mayor-sparks-outrage-saying-parents-using-disabled-children-planning-permission-huge-extensions.html#addComment

This man has made one of the crassest comments I have seen. He has epitomised the current demonisation of people with disabilities and actually taken it to a whole new level.

Now I realise that this thread will bring out a whole heap of 'my neighbour's cat's uncle had a blue badge and he ran a marathon last week' type of comments. But I will ignore them - thats is what the DM comments page is for.

Just a few thoughts before I go and work with families who are clearly raking it in from haveing a child with complex needs Hmm

Having adaptations to your home is unlikely to ADD value and will put most buyers off.
Looking after a child at home will save the tax payers at least 2k per week per child
People who have severely disabled children often have to give up work to provide care - yes even when the go to school full time. How does your boss like you taking a few hours off to take your child to the dentist? Well imagine having 3 appointments in one week, a month or two in hospital per year plus being called to the school on a weekly basis because of seizures, temperatures, falls and unexplained prolonged bouts of crying... Still think you could hold down a job?

This guy is a fucking knob.

I am angry

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Bossybritches22 · 09/11/2011 09:59

YANBU

What a fine specimen of democratic manhood he is (not) hope his supporters are Shock & Angry at his opinions & the fact they have got him into his position.

OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 10:05

Got on at work! Amazed what with all the swears going on Grin

Not that I am vindictive or nuffin but I would dearly like to get a wave of outrage going to force this muppet to explain himself.

I am usually against kneejerk resignations as they usually mean the offender is let off scott free but in this case I would make an exception.

This man will be in a position of power. He will be a MAYOR. Ok its not the PM but it does mean he gets a say. Do we want people who regard children as disabilities as cash cows in power. What is this all about? A bit of projection going on Mr Carl Crompton?

DO YOU see a disabled child as a money making opportunity? Do YOU think its for the best when a child with complex needs dies? Would YOU use a child of yours to fiddle and manipulate the system to make money on your property?

Where do these ideas come from Mr Carl Crompton? They come from inside your head which frankly says quite a lot about how your mind works.

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OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 10:11

I have reported my post to MNHQ and asked if they would tweet on this issue. Someone might listen to them. I only have a couple of followers and I dont really 'get' twitter.

This man needs to be held accountable for the things he has said. He should have the opportunity to expain he didnt mean it like that Hmm

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Dawndonna · 09/11/2011 10:12

I've put it on my facebook page, got friends in the area who will share.

cwtch4967 · 09/11/2011 10:20

I think this man needs to spend a few days living in a non adapted house with a disabled child - he may gain an insight into why these applications for extensions are needed!

What an ignorant and insensitive man!

OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 10:27

I have put it on my FB too. Jeez I know it just keyboard warriorism but its something.

I dont have the actual time or money to pop up to Preston and tell the man about himself.

I can only hope that the power or the interweb works its magic.

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OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 10:40

www.labour.org.uk/contact

You can ask the bosses what they are going to do about this man.

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SHRIIIEEEKPoolingBearBlood · 09/11/2011 10:55

Wonder what the disabled xhildren think of him. Well, surely that must have been a career altering comment

Andrewofgg · 09/11/2011 11:11

Steel-capped boots, please, OP, and give him one from me.

Andrewofgg · 09/11/2011 11:11

Steel-capped boots, please, OP, and give him one from me.

Sevenfold · 09/11/2011 12:01

so glad to see the support, and venom for the

HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 09/11/2011 12:30

Labour?

He's a labour man?

Blush I'm embarrassed to admit that I simply assumed him to be a tory.

That's my own prejudice exposed.

MumblingAndBloodyRagDoll · 09/11/2011 12:39

What an awful twat! I hope he loses his "job" the old wanker.

MrsDanverclone · 09/11/2011 13:28

Councillor Crompton 'I have no objection to the disabled children' Hmm ( unless of course your parents have managed to get a house extension, to improve your quality of life, then he has an objection apparently)Angry

MrsDanverclone ' I do have an objection to you Counciller Crompton, you are obviously an incredibly ignorant individual, and shouldn't be in any position of power.AngryAngry

MrsDanverclone · 09/11/2011 13:31

In fact he is a total fuckwit.

And that's the first time I have swore on MN I think.

Dawndonna · 09/11/2011 13:45

emailed the Labour party.

TeWihara · 09/11/2011 13:48

Mr Crompton, for example, is a twat.

Very sorry for everyone with the misfortune to live in Preston while he is making decisions.

WinterIsComing · 09/11/2011 14:00

Thanks for the link OP - have emailed.

travellingwilbury · 09/11/2011 14:00

Wow ! I particularly love the phrase , "If in a few years something happens to the disabled child they have then got a large property worth half a million pounds"

My gob is well and truly smacked .

blackeyedsusan · 09/11/2011 14:17

thanks for the linkie. I suspect the number of emails to the labour party may be going up this evening.

I wonder if mr crompton is feeling particularly suicidal career wise?

OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 15:40

Mumsnet have kindly tweeted and put this in the today's news thingy.

Please lets not let this lose momentum. This man needs to explain his words, justify his comments and be held accountable. I want him to produce proof of his accusations.

For example if I said 'Carl Crompton is an ignorant spouting wankfountain' I would have to have proof wouldnt I?

No problem there then....

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TheScaryJessie · 09/11/2011 15:44

He can't have said that. No-one is that thoughtless, crass, and overwhelmingly nasty.

Shurely Shome Mistake?

minouminou · 09/11/2011 16:12

Am loving the "....if something happens to the child...."

here's his email

[email protected]

Go for it, ladies.

OhDoAdmit · 09/11/2011 16:14

You beauty! I am off to email.

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Dawndonna · 09/11/2011 16:16

Dawn's Dd2 here.
Okay, my twin is a wheelchair user. Eventually we are going to have to do the kitchen so that she can cook etc. This will DECREASE the value of our house because all the units will be at wheelchair height, meaning of course, that anyone wanting to buy will have to rip out the kitchen and put in a new one.
The man is an idiot, perhaps he'd like to come and discuss this with a pair of fifteen year old twins, taking into consideration he doesn't object to us, I can't see that he'd have a problem with it. I have Aspeger's Syndrome, as well as various co-morbids, but even with my ODD, ADHD and SPD, I'm better mannered and more intelligent than this moron.
Sister has Worster Drought syndrome among other things, she has a poor swallowing mechanism, can't see Mum rubbing her hands with glee about money if anything happened.
Mum says I'm allowed to swear but I can't find a word horrible enough, although there are some good examples on this site!