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AIBU?

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To hate it when posters on here call other women bitches?

100 replies

Proudnscary · 29/10/2011 09:08

I don't like the word 'bitch', I find it offensive (and not much offends me, trust me).

I see it increasingly in AIBU, usually on a thread about another mum who has upset the OP by not inviting their dc to a party or some such abhorrent crime Hmm.

Within two or three posts, you get 'She's obviously just a nasty bitch..' etc.

How can you say that about somebody you know next to nothing about? And why use such misogynistic language?

OP posts:
bibbitybobbitybloodyaxe · 29/10/2011 21:11

Yes, "potty mouth" way superior to bitch. I hope it is ok for a non-Scottish person to adopt it.

rycooler · 29/10/2011 21:13

No no I wouldn't use it on MN ( although I think it about a few posters ) and in RL I'd only use it to describe a certain type of woman -ie; 'OMG that woman is a complete bitch' - sometimes it's the only word that fits.

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:15

Bibbitybobwhateceryourname is...

Bothered.

Not.

Get back on your high horse love.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 29/10/2011 21:16

Talk to the hand girlfriend

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 29/10/2011 21:16

Etc etc

AgentZigzag · 29/10/2011 21:18

Runningwilde - illustrating you can be really shitty without resorting to name calling Grin

rycooler · 29/10/2011 21:18
Grin
runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:18

Agree rycooler!

scottishmummy · 29/10/2011 21:18

Lol,was that urban ironic Runwilde?or is you really so yo yo is you cussin me...

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:20

How amusing!

Hilarious.

catgirl1976 · 29/10/2011 21:20

I find "love" really amusing. I always imagine a Bet Lynch type in leopard skin and perma-fag :)

rycooler · 29/10/2011 21:21

Arghhh - I was Grining at fango.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 29/10/2011 21:23

Grin 'beeeayatch' is better than 'bitch' anyway

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:23

I'm not cussing you Scottishmummy! Some women that are described in situations in threads do seem like nasty bitches. I have never called a fellow mumsnetter a biaatch though!

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:26

Lol catgirl...

I don't smoke (not for years), but I do have a vintage (dahling) leopard skin coat somewhere...

rycooler · 29/10/2011 21:26

Oi SM, leave Runningwilde alone - she agreed with me. I love her.

catgirl1976 · 29/10/2011 21:28

Put it on running an channel your inner Bet. For some reason I am now craving a fag and g&t even though I haven't smoked for a year and I don't like gin :)

I had a floor length leopard print coat as a teenager - I thought I looked amaaaazing :)

scottishmummy · 29/10/2011 21:30

Yes folk do love a sook on mn,bit of I've always liked you I ave

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 29/10/2011 21:32
runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:33

My (fake, not real!) leopard print coat is mighty fine my lovelies!

Ryecooler - why, thank you!

I still miss the Fags catgirl - it's been yearsssss since I had a malboro light (what a predictable brand to smoke eh, no benson and hedges here!) but I bloody miss them! I gave up before I started trying for a baby and stayed off them but I will start again when I am a ninety year old little lady!

Aghhh! Gis a fagggggg!

catgirl1976 · 29/10/2011 21:36

I was malboro lights too...........i miiiiiiiiiiiiss them. Also gave up to get pregnant and am now 38 weeks :) but am determined not to start again after he's born. They were my friends though :(

When people ask me if I have been having cravings, I am MIGHTY tempted to tell them marlboro lights, white wine and Eric Northman.

scottishmummy · 29/10/2011 21:38

Never smoked but if I did,I'd like a fag holder,pat butcher coat and raspy cough

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:41

Well... Mr vampire man is mighty fine!

Awww! Good luck with your birth etc! Let me know when your beautiful baby arrives!

I am a moo mummy, I breastfed my first for nearly two years and then gave birth and am still breastfeeding my 2nd dc who is two (and she is determined she is not ready to give up!) so it's really helped me NOT smoke! And now, I do think you can really tell by people's skin if they smoke and that helps me. Although I miss lazing around in coffee shops and pubs smoking endless Fags!

Do let me know when the little one arrives!

catgirl1976 · 29/10/2011 21:44

oooh sm i had a fag holder, but not at the same time as the bet lynch coat. It was part of my "goth" look :)

thanks running - will let you know how it goes. Am sure he will be more than worth giving up the marlboro's for :) well done on your abstinence! :)

runningwilde · 29/10/2011 21:45

Scottishmummy, I bet you are hard though! And that IS a compliment by the way! Grin