My husband has used an 'odd job man' for a few years. A year ago he took some money that my husband gave him for buying doors and used it to pay some bailiffs. He also lied about it. He eventually put things right financially. My husband was irate at the time and it really affected us (affected timing of works and tenants moving in etc). I think this man is untrustworthy and once he has basically stolen from us, he could easily do this again. Dh keeps using him and he is doing some work at our house at moment. I just don't want him here, I think dh should have stopped using him. Dh is saying he has forgiven him, and as we are both Christians, so should I. But I can't- people have to understand that their actions have an effect and he is just learning that the 'thieving' is OK and forgivable. My dh thinks I am being V unreasonable. I think he is a walkover. What do you think??