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AIBU?

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15yr Dd and sleepover!

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Madly · 22/10/2011 20:54

DD invited for sleepover at friends house tonight. I know the girl and her patents so am quite happy. Just this minute found out that friends parents are away so three 15yr olds are on their own. DH thinks absolutely not appropriate for parents to leave 15yr olds alone overnight and is going to collect DD at 11pm.

Are we being too overanxious or just careful? WWYD?

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HowlingWereWolfBitch · 22/10/2011 22:03

Ss'al good mama. Hicup.

shockers · 22/10/2011 22:05

Tell her you're going to pick her up at 11pm... go, and if all's quiet, ask if she'd like to stay. It could just be that her friend doesn't want to stay alone. If your DD is usually trustwothy, why would you treat her otherwise? However, this is a situation that could get out of hand because of fb etc... so check it out. If you were going to pick her up anyway, it's not a big deal.

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 22/10/2011 22:05

Was I the only one who thought spraying Charlie red in my mouth would throw my parents off?

shockers · 22/10/2011 22:07

Just saw your last post. Sounds like your DD is a sensible girl. If they were up to no good, Dad would have been last on their list to call

HowlingWereWolfBitch · 22/10/2011 22:08

Ditto shockers. Good for her.

Are you up for a sleep over at your house?

squeakyfreakytoy · 22/10/2011 22:10

After your last post, I would say let them get on with the sleepover. As shockers says.. if they were up to anything dodgy, they wouldnt have been out having a pizza and getting the bus home.

AnyPhantomFucker · 22/10/2011 22:16

having a pizza in town cancels anything dodgy ?

you what ?

RumourOfAHurricane · 22/10/2011 22:17

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HowlingWereWolfBitch · 22/10/2011 22:20

Midnight in town?

RumourOfAHurricane · 22/10/2011 22:29

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LineRunner · 22/10/2011 22:35

Well she didn't lie to you.

Have them all over at yours?

diddl · 22/10/2011 22:39

That´s that resolved then!

I don´t know if I´d trust my daughter or not.

But something I have noticed-she´s a very heavy sleeper & I wonder if she´d wake up in an emergency!

Herecomesthesciencebint · 22/10/2011 22:44

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jellybeans · 22/10/2011 22:44

I would be fine about that to be honest. I would prob text them a few times to make sure all is going OK. I am pretty strict too but at some stage you have to give them more trust and independence. My DD has very nice god friends though, maybe different otherwise.

jellybeans · 22/10/2011 22:46

good friends that should be not god friends!

spiderpig8 · 22/10/2011 23:50

i realise that it's academic now, but why did you find out about there being no adults there from another parent and not from your DD??She's not being honest with you! if the situation comes up again -NO WAY!!

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