It is a long standing gripe of mine that DP sleeps so much at the weekend and eats into the family time he could be spending with our DDs. I appreciate that he works very hard during the week, but actually his lie ins are more down to the fact that he doesn't come to bed until 3am or 4am on Friday and Saturday evenings. Whenever we have plans as a family, or even as a couple, I have to wake him several times before he will haul his arse out of bed, rather than fall straight back to sleep.
So today his team's football match has an early kick off. I only know this because I happened to be in the room when the captain rang him the other day to confirm that they all needed to be at the club by 1pm, which would require DP to leave our house by 12.15 at the latest. It is now 1.05pm, and he is fast asleep upstairs. Any second now the captain will call to ask where the hell he is.
So WIBU not to wake him, given that he had not deliberately made me aware of the early kick off, he did not set his alarm, or do anything else to make sure he got up on time? I'm hoping that the grief he'll inevitably get off his team might finally be the kick up the backside that I have failed to get across, that he needs to take responsibility for his own time-keeping at the weekend, rather than relying on me to mother him. However, ten other men are about to be let down by his absence, for which I feel a teeny bit guilty.