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To be appalled by the bad language used on this forum

566 replies

moomoo44 · 06/10/2011 18:11

I know I will probably be shot down as I am a newbie on here but I recently found this site whilst searching for something and found the AIBU threads very interesting. I find it intriguing how different people react to the same situation and it really makes you realise that we are not all the same, and the world is better for it.

What I have found so appalling though is the frequent use of swearing throughout these posts. I have been truly shocked by this as it is a forum used mainly by parents. Is this the example to set children?

There is something about swearing in writing which makes it so much worse than in conversation, although that is not nice either. It seems so much more deliberate in writing.

When did it become acceptable to use such language unnecessarily and excessively just for effect?

OP posts:
SoupDragon · 06/10/2011 20:49

skip off to Netmums then.

BoysAreLikeDogs · 06/10/2011 20:49

well in the nicest possible way, this forum ain't for you then

LissieLovettsDeliciousPies · 06/10/2011 20:49

And fwiw, I don't accept fb friend requests from children either, because I swear on the internet. I don't swear in rl (unless out with adults) but I'm a grown up using a forum aimed at grown ups.

Robotindisguise · 06/10/2011 20:49

But why? It really annoys me when people say "what sort of an example is this to set to children" as though once you become a parent you have to be a Mother at all times, even when your DC are asleep, and can never swear / be rude again.

Peachy · 06/10/2011 20:49

OOh netmums

yes indeedy

Do you know I found out today there is a video of me dancing on there

That make me pmsl really as I am one of the longest serving posters here

Everlong · 06/10/2011 20:50

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Robotindisguise · 06/10/2011 20:50

etmums wear ike roopers ut ithout he irst etter. Ointless.

cheesesarnie · 06/10/2011 20:51

peachyShock im appalled!why are you dancing on netmums but youve never danced for us????

Rhinestone · 06/10/2011 20:51

Fuckity fuckity cunty arse fuck.

Bollocks.

ScarahStratton · 06/10/2011 20:52

God no, even the DDs aren't on my FB.

AbbyAbsinthe · 06/10/2011 20:53

Ssssh Rhinestone. It's waaay past your bedtime.

spiderslegs · 06/10/2011 20:53
ScarahStratton · 06/10/2011 20:53

I also swear in RL.

Everlong · 06/10/2011 20:53

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

LissieLovettsDeliciousPies · 06/10/2011 20:54

But everlong, you can use them in rl and still not call your children cunts or twats. Or even use them in front of your children.

FabbyChic · 06/10/2011 20:55

Ive a 23 and 18 year old that are more mature than me, puft, I'm never getting old.

Wankrot, that has a nice ring to it.

Peachy · 06/10/2011 20:55

chhesesarnie here, video on link, twenties float, i am in the blue frock on front.

And yes more works now Wink

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 06/10/2011 20:56

What a pile of utter twatwankery. What the actual jeff is going on here at the moment ? Have we been invaded by the National Arsebollocks Association?
Every other thread is a newbie with some spleen to vent and it's all shitstirring fucketybollocks!

Pagwatch · 06/10/2011 20:56

I have a 9 year old that can do a cartwheel without using her hands.

crazynannawitchbitch · 06/10/2011 20:56

Oh Lord Peachy I saw that Grin

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 06/10/2011 20:56
izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 06/10/2011 20:57

I do so agree with you OP. It really is totally fucking beyond the cunting pale to pepper one's conversations and writings with unnecessary expletives.

O, hang on...I've just remembered we're not conversing via nethuns so please disregard the above.

On this site the usual rule of etiquette applies: 'if you don't like it, fuck off to the far side of fuck - and then fuck off some more'.

MollyintheMoon · 06/10/2011 20:57

I find that the majority of swearing on mn happens on these sort of threads. In fact, I can't remember when i last saw someone being called a cunt in anger.

Peachy · 06/10/2011 20:57

what, saw my video?

me

Wink
ScarahStratton · 06/10/2011 20:58

14 and 18 year old. Also far more mature than me.

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