and surely they could have just moved your DS to another class?
We asked.
He was counted as an "immigrant" cohort (tainted by my genes perhaps?)
Was told "ok give us three days to find a suitable immigrant child to swap with him."
And I just couldn't do it
I just couldn't let another child be plonked in her class, cos I knew what they were in for.
I'm just a TEFLer not a proper PGCE graduate teacher, but even I was able to work out that the issue was too profound on so many levels that it was just not possible to be the cause of inflicting it on another child, especially one who might already be battling an uneven playing field.
What would happen if you contacted the teacher and told them that you don't want your son memorising an unintelligible mess and could he provide some proper resources? Make it his problem that his method of imparting information is shoddy? And ask why they are being graded on dictation ability in Art
high dudgeon
With the potential to make him a target.
Only one test a year is standadized, and that is only for maths and English, the teacher can call on a specific child to be tested more often, be asked harder questions or more questions than the other kids, graded lower (it's often totally subjective the marking, no mark scheme. and no proof cos it's oral)
Where you get unlucky teacher-wise it can extend to insults. I'm teaching one little boy English, not for the sake of English being important, but becuase he is a target and his mum is trying to make it harder for the teacher to call him stupid or cretin through out the class. I spend most of the lesson building up his confidence as human, let alone as a learner or an English speaker. He's only 9.
And there will be nothing I can do to help DS if that happens to him. Not unless another adult in the school is prepared to speak up.
Having been in the postion of the adult who speaks up I have some undeestanding why those on long term or perm contracts so rarely do. It was one of the less pleasant periods of my life.
The above is all worst case scenario, not standard, automatic fare. But it is not rare enough for me to take that kind of risk having had enough of a taste of the lack of recourse when people do go over any lines.
I already have my card marked with the HE thing and the history with the elementary school business, so I think we are a higher risk of fall put than average.
I think with the school I just have to suck it up an accpet the one thing I can do is write a letter, frame it as him being disadvantaged by 2 years HE (that bit burns, he got excellent results from the school he had left those two years, his ex teachers created and gave the exam), and a mother who unintentionally buggered his Italian by making too much of a meal of his English, and can he have a clean copy im the case of dictation/test please in all subjects.
Then get dh to sign it so it looks like he is apologising for his wife's meddling in DS's education.
That will actually be the most effective way of getting clean copies, and possiby even getting the more easier flattered of them to go a it easier on him while he works on his speed issues.
bloody hell this country makes life so very complicated and intensly "political" sometimes. In areas you'd never expect it to be such a huge stride culturally.
He went to bed ready for the art test. Here's hoping it doesn't all fall out of his head during the night. Or the geography test prep that he sprang on me hasn't taken up all the room in his short term memory banks. But at least that was from his text book and not a dictation.