Together for 13 years, married for 4. He has an affair- the last of 7 I have now found out!! We're split up and he's still with ow (who incidentally is a fat ugly cow 8 years older than me who knew full well he was married with a 3 month old baby- bitch. I know it takes 2 and he's a shit, but really- try to show some class!)
I digress- apparently 4 years is classed as a 'short' marriage despite being together for 13 years. I supported him through uni, progressional qualifications and a whole load of crap from his family and I'm now entitled to nothing!
I get csa minimum child maintainence and that's it. No spousal support, no cut if future earnings, no pension share, nothing.
So he is earning £40k and I'm on benefits with a baby. My life is shit and he's happy as larry.
Where us the legal support in marriage eh!
Feeling very hard done by.