Name changed for this one.
Hope I make sense here, there's a lot more but here's a bit.
DS and friend both 13 just moved up to year 9.
The friend goes to same school as DS. Friend was excluded for badly hurting another boy in a fight last term and sent to a special unit for 3 weeks (not the first time he's been violent). I know that the boy has problems at home, his mum is in a DV situation. Friend was told to leave as he kicked off at the new husband and his mum sadly sided with husband. Friends now lives round the corner with his dad and gran. His dad seems like a nice guy but a bit of a wet fish.
Last term he rang DS after running away from home asking if he could stay with us, I felt sorry for the lad and said yes.
My worry is my DS being caught in the middle of his friends acting out behaviour. Friend text DS saying he'd want to kill himself if it wasn't for DS etc. etc.
DS acts differently around the friends, gets lippy etc.
DS wants to roam streets with friend (which is a no no)
The other day friend was in back of the car and said that he was tired from his antics of the day before. Apparently he only goes out with year 11 girls because then he gets to have sex. On asking what time he had to be home he said whenever. Thenhe said he was going to wait till his dad was asleep and climb out of the window to run off to Croydon to meet a girl.
Guess what I'm saying is whilst I really feel for the boy, he's a bloody bad influence on my DS.
I know everyone says you can't choose their friends buy bloody hell son is only 13!
Shall I let it ride?