we are a highest rate tax household.
fine. dh earns that much, so it gets paid. I am fine wiht the concept of taxing richer people more, but I do wish that in return for the stupid amounts of tax he pays we could get decent services for our children.
instead we have:
had one child go through school un dx'd and largely ignored during schooling - we had to point out to the school that hse was actually, by their own inflated grading system losing skills - they hadn\t noticed, and didn't bother to do anyhting once they knew. now an adult, and there is no help, even though she is struggling.
paid over £100k so far for dd1's education - just to get her learning. nothing flash, nothing woo or out-there. just a suitable education where she is able to learn. and she is only just 7. we also had to pay out stupid amounts on legal fees to persuade the LA that she a) is capable of learning and b) can do so in a suitable school.
paid ridiculous amounts of money to get dd1's health problems even looked at, let alone alleviated. the nhs won't touch them, and so our only option is private. of course, with these gut issues comes the special diet - again, gp not interested (despite provable results) and so we pay (again!) for special diets (not talking fancy stuff here, but some of it, eg vitamin supplements can be hard to get hold of with the restrictions her diet places - we ship a lot in form the States)
had to do the same for dd2 re: diet, and input form professionals (she is borderline NT/ASD, but since she does not have "clear" (hah! are they nuts? her difficulties are clear to most people, but since they are not on the scale of dd1's they are dismissed) difficulties the nhs is not interested.
and that is before we even get to the more "standard" rich people's lifestyle stuff like private school for dd2 etc.
so, dh pays top whack in tax, and in return we get what? oh yes, to pay even more (and add ti up - we are talking multiple hundreds of thousands - luckily we can afford it) just so that dd1 can have a decent shot at life.
thanks a bunch.