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AIBU?

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Aibu or a bit pfb?

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JoannaGlumley · 06/09/2011 16:17

My DP flies a microlight and is really pushing to take my DS who is 2.6 up with him. I am not so keen but he's accusing me of being over cautious and pfb so I am after some opinions.
The microlight is just like a very small plane so is enclosed and he wouldn't need a helmet, he would be strapped in. DS has sat in it lots of times and taxied round with the engine off and hasn't seemed bothered. My main problem is that normally he hates loud noises, I can't use the Hoover, hairdryer, blender when he is in the room. It would only be a short flight but I'd worry that if he started kicking off he would distract DP. There also wouldn't be anyone to comfort him.

I also worry that he doesn't really get that the plane he sits in is the same as the planes in the sky so while he can recite the words 'the plane goes up in the clouds' he doesn't understand and it would be a huge huge shock.

So what do you think as I really am being made to feel like a killjoy? And what age would you let your kids go?

I've name changed so I can show this to DP and he can't see my history!!

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Nanny0gg · 07/09/2011 19:30

And no-one should go in one of those things unless it's their own decision.
Clearly that means that small babies/children shouldn't!

rocketty · 08/09/2011 10:40

YANBU.

JoannaGlumley · 17/09/2011 19:12

Update for Edna on the conversation with my DP, who is definitely not arealman by the way!
We have decided that when I think he's ready we'll go in a light aircraft. This at least means that i can go too so if he gets upset I'll be able to comfort him and he won't distract DP. And I get the final say over when that happens!
Thanks everyone for your input and mainly backing me up, I really do appreciate it!

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JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 18/09/2011 18:30

Oh I :heart: updates.

Makes it all worthwhile...

Strawberry64 · 18/09/2011 18:38

Let him go if you are comfy with it. I was also petrified of loud noises but was completely nonplussed about it. The first few minutes were excited but then I got bored lol. Everyone different!

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