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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think Eat, Pray, Love is a pile of self indulgent dross?

90 replies

AtYourCervix · 05/09/2011 17:22

Admittedly I have not watched it more than 5 minutes here and there but fuck me, it is irritating and shite is it not?

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FootprintsOnTheMoon · 05/09/2011 21:40

yanbu

also suffered it in book club ("it's like she was talking about meeee... .... so wunnerful...")

ShadowsCollideWithPeople · 05/09/2011 21:42

Oh, it looks awful. I have not seen the film, nor read the book - I think I somehow intuitively knew that they would make me want to vomit copiously. Not even Javier Bardem could make me sit through the film, and that is saying something Wink.

silverfrog, 'I had to read it for a book club I was in (so had to finish it, even thugh it was shite), and then had ot sit for an evening listening to everyone else gush about how much they had loved it'. Oh, that is nasty! I do feel your pain - I once had to go to see SATC 2 in the cinema. Well, didn't actually have to but all of my female colleagues were going to see it, and were very insistent that we must all go, on a 'girls night out' (I should have know, tbh, I have never been the 'girls night out' type). We had to see it in the cinema, then go for cocktails (urgh) in some over-priced, pretentious, Manhattan wannabe bar. I spent the duration of the film cringing at the contrived, badly-written offensiveness of it - and then 2 hours in a bar listening to my colleagues discussing how it was 'brilliant', 'amazing', 'one of the best movies ever' and 'fabulous'. It was around then that I decided I had to find a new job Grin. Disclaimer - am probably a miserable, cynical bitch. It still made me want to throw things, though.

FootprintsOnTheMoon · 05/09/2011 21:43

I hated that she was travelling on an advance. Pure cronyism.

Francagoestohollywood · 05/09/2011 21:48

YANBU, and I only managed to watch 2 minutes of the movie. Not even javier Bardem can redeem it!

ThatllDoPig · 05/09/2011 21:50

What is wrong with honest self indulgence?

I thought the same thing as lots of you, but am questioning it now. Why do we feel so strongly about the ego thing and the indulgence of it all? She's not hurting anyone in doing this is she? Are we secretly jealous? Is it a need to put people down?

lachesis · 05/09/2011 21:54

'I hated that she was travelling on an advance. Pure cronyism.'

Her entire life, 'career', etc is a function of cronyism. It's like Celia Ahren.

lachesis · 05/09/2011 21:58

'What is wrong with honest self indulgence? '

On the scale she takes it, it's pathetically immature. Sure, it harms no one, but IMO it's not a quality to be lauded in adulthood.

ChristinedePizan · 05/09/2011 22:01

I don't have a problem with self-indulgence but it is a private thing. It is Not Interesting to anyone else. Well, clearly it is to some people but I suspect those whose book shelves are made up of self-help manuals.

A1980 · 05/09/2011 22:02

I refuse to read or watch such shite!

YANBU

Fatshionista · 05/09/2011 22:03

A pile of crap but Javier Bardem is gorgeous.

PreviouslyonLost · 05/09/2011 22:06

spiderslegs Off to Google ' Mary and Max '...but can I also suggest ' Harold and Maude ' (1971, so please overlook the fashions of that era within film)

ChocolateIsAFoodGroup · 05/09/2011 22:07

But you just had to finish reading it, though, didn't you? It was like a MacDonald's for the brain..... Horrible, awful, tripey bollocks and doesn't remotely fill you up but you. had. to. keep. going.

Thank god she didn't have children, though - what a wankster extraordinaire!

Sidge · 05/09/2011 22:08

It's the premyeer on Sky Movies this week.

DH and I normally watch the premyeer on Friday or Saturday night but DH pressed the 'i' button, read the blurb and announced "I'm not watching that drivelly shite".

So we didn't. I'm glad we didn't reading this thread!

PreviouslyonLost · 05/09/2011 22:09

Toni Collette, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Eric Bana, Barry Humphries...I'm liking it already.

Francagoestohollywood · 05/09/2011 22:10

Fatshionista, Javier is always gorgeous, even in No country for old me. Grin

Francagoestohollywood · 05/09/2011 22:10

men

Ifancyashandy · 05/09/2011 22:11

See,I quite liked aspects of the book - namely 'eat'....

Rome? Good!
Ice cream? Good!
Pasta? Good!
Red wine? Gooooooooooooood!!

The 'Pray' bit? Do naff off love!

The 'Love' stuff? Well, Javier Bardem could make any film watchable!

Yourefired · 05/09/2011 22:18

Watching it at the moment on sky plus1 she's just got to india. Think she needs to come to my home town and get a metaphorical slap. Silly cow.

seasalt · 05/09/2011 22:19

Have not seen the film but the book was terrible. I found out after I read it that the film Coyote Ugly (worst film ever) was based on her earlier life in New York.

onetoomanytoo · 05/09/2011 22:22

thank hevens for that, i too had to read it for book club, and although i enjoyed the juant around italy bit, the rest was beyond dross,
really thought i wasn't intellegent or something because i didn't like it and all these worthy sort of clever peeps were raving about this god awful book.

i often have a bit of an inferiority complex thing going on because i never seem to like the books we are meant to like, nor the films either,
captain corelli's mandolin, and all of the turner prize books, and all of the richard and judy book club books have left me cold.

give me a good james hurbert bloodfest or dick francis at his best and i am a happy girl.
as for films, although not into real gore films, totally love the final destination series.

LittleSarah · 05/09/2011 22:38

Oh god, my mum and mother-in-law both enthused about this pile of shite.

Admittedly I only managed a few chapters but it was such self-indulgent, achingly pretentious, whingy, awful crap. People can be as self-indulgent and whingy as they like but to read it?? Not for me. I'm just amazed that some people love it.

Funnily enough I read a review of her next book in the New Yorker and it was most amazed by her radical change of views on marriage now she has a happy one.

spiderslegs · 05/09/2011 22:38

Previously , love Harold & Maude, Mary & Max is very much of the same ilk, didn't know whether I was up to a feature length animation in black & white, left it sitting at the bottom of my Love Film pile, have watched it twice subsequently & still haven't sent it back.

The loveliest, most honest film I've seen for a long time .

PreviouslyonLost · 05/09/2011 22:50

spiderslegs 'Mary & Max' now on my to watch list...bless you for knowing 'Harold and Maude'...I sometimes fear I am alone in my esoteric film/book choices Grin

Ifancyashandy · 05/09/2011 23:32

Captain Corelli's Mandolin? Tried to read it seven, yes seven times and never got past the Pea. In. The. Ear.

Who the fook cared about the frigging pea?!?

Whatmeworry · 05/09/2011 23:34

I Love that MN hates Eat Lurve.....my tribe :)