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to think Eat, Pray, Love is a pile of self indulgent dross?

90 replies

AtYourCervix · 05/09/2011 17:22

Admittedly I have not watched it more than 5 minutes here and there but fuck me, it is irritating and shite is it not?

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HardCheese · 05/09/2011 18:27

ChristinedePizan, spot on! I read the book because my partner had been reading it for a reading group and left it laying about, and ended up seeing the film because I got stranded on foot in a thunderstorm at the cinema, and it was the only thing showing that didn't involve a serious body count. (For anyone who's wondering, the film is, in fact, worse, than the heap of navel-gazing dross that was the 'memoir', partly because it leaves out the only genuinely interesting bit in the book - the episode in Indonesia where a poor local woman, perfectly understandably, decides to try to get a piece of the financial action from the self-indulgent First Worlder, because she's not content to be Picturesque Background Character.)

I have no particular problem with navel-gazing when intelligently done, or when it's light-hearted but makes no claims to profundity. My issue with the book was the unthinking 'Hey, the rest of the world is a Disney theme park featuring funny foreigners and their funny little ways and languages, to which Americans can go to Find Themselves!' So Italy was Food and Comical Italians, India was Hinduism-Lite, and Indonesia was Funny Little Soothsayer and Dreamy Foreigner Sex.

For all she learned or told the reader about any of those places, she and her navel might as well have stayed in NY - only then she wouldn't have got the highly-motivating million-dollar advance she stays so quiet about in the book. There seems to me to be a big difference between wandering to figure stuff out, and wandering to earn back your advance - how many of the episodes she writes about were sought out/invented specifically with a view to 'fitting' in her book?

LynetteScavo · 05/09/2011 18:33

YANBU.

LadyThompson · 05/09/2011 18:34

It was pretty bad. Quite astonishingly self-absorbed and shallow. If it was me, I'd shut the cack up about the gaping chasm in my inadequate self, not write a book (nay, two books, there's a sequel!) and sell the film rights, but the woman has a marauding ego. DP ordered this film on Love Film - I can only deduce he fancies Julia Roberts. That said - the one good thing about the film is that if you turn off the sound, it's very nicely shot and pictorially an enjoyable travelogue.

QuickLookBusy · 05/09/2011 18:42

Oh it is indeed shit.

I didn't read the book, because someone warned me, but DH recently bought the DVDHmm for a family DVD night.

He thought it would be inspiring for our 2 DDs. DH and DD2 loved it, DD1 and I hated it.

brimfullofasha · 05/09/2011 18:55

YANBU. I wish I'd turned it off after 5 mins.

Nowtspecial · 05/09/2011 18:58

Most films tagged as chick films give me reflux. I watched 20 mins of this utter utter shite, it was like Dan Brown had a sister. Arse gravy.

Collision · 05/09/2011 18:59

2 and a half hours of pure drivel that DH and I will never get back.

Truly awful.

And I am cross cos I LIKE Julia Roberts.

WillieWaggledagger · 05/09/2011 19:01

mark kermode calls it eat pray love vomit

ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 05/09/2011 19:02

Arf at reflux and arse gravy

CurrySpice · 05/09/2011 19:04

:o at "arse gravy"

I watched it all the way through. I was hormonal in my defence and therefore my critical powers were impeded.

I even cried at it and phoned DP and said "I have just cried at the most shite film ever and I have no idea why". He just shook his head sadly.

It was very what.the.fuck-ish!?!

I aplogise to our American members before I make a big sweeping generalisation but this kind of American pshyco-babble nonsense about "finding" yourself and achieving "closure" makes me want to hurl!!

I'll get my coat

ownthreadhider · 05/09/2011 19:06

YANBU we switched it off halfway through it was bloody awful and U couldn't see what the point of it was. One of the worst films I gave ever (half) watched.

figgygal · 05/09/2011 19:08

Me too I switched it off after an hour which was half an hour after I thought "god this is shiiiiiiite"

justhe1 · 05/09/2011 19:13

I stuck it out.

Not my thing....for good reason, its kind of an American younger version rip off of Shirley Valentine, but not as good (and that was rubbish too) imho.

Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 05/09/2011 19:15

Ha! Clever me has avoided the movie - the way I avoided all Julia Roberts poo bum bottom stuff (though in the olden days i did love that Magnolia thingy movie and that Pizza one - sorry minor surgery today and I am a bit fuzzy)

Linnet · 05/09/2011 19:17

I went to see this at the cinema with my friend last year because she wanted to see it. As a rule I do like Julia Roberts but this film was awful. 2 hours of my life that I won't get back! The scenery etc was amazing but the story bored me, all a bit woe is me blah blah blah. The worst part for me though was that I was on a healthy eating kick and they kept eating pasta, one of my fav foods which I wasn't eating at that time, so i left the movie very hungry and craving pasta!

Nowtspecial · 05/09/2011 19:21

Arse gravy was summat Stephen Fry said ( rightly ) about Dan Brown ' books '.

mamalovesmojitos · 05/09/2011 19:29

YANBU, that book is one of a small few that I couldn't even finish. Awful, tripe.

chandellina · 05/09/2011 20:06

The book was better than the film but as curryspice says it's not one for British anti self discovery types.

jan123 · 05/09/2011 20:20

I watched it the other night..jesus I was losing the will to live after ten minutes...egotistical nonsense......

ChristinedePizan · 05/09/2011 20:31

Ahh - I had forgotten about the bloody pasta.

I go to Italy. The food is delicious by goodness me I put on a lot of weight.
I go to India. My monotonous ohhhhmmmmm routine and watery lentils make me lose that weight and more.
I go to Indonesia. A local tries to rip me off but I love her because she is cute and foreign so I forgive her because I am in love with her and the random bloke I met.

Until I typed that, I had no idea that all the countries began with I. I, I, I ... Do you think that's deliberate and it is actually supposed to be a satirical novel on first world navel gazing? :o

wigglesrock · 05/09/2011 20:40

God, it was shite, she irritated me beyond belief, I almost turned into my mother "problems, I'll give you some real problems pet" Blush Not even Javier could save it for me!

justhavintheone · 05/09/2011 20:54

didnt watch the film as the book made me want to puke.

spiderslegs · 05/09/2011 21:01

Arse gravy

Thankfully haven't read the book or watched the film, as I can imagine the horror, if you require an antidote watch Mary & Max.

I do not, ever, blub at films.

I was covered in snot & helpless.

Has anyone seen it?

edwinbear · 05/09/2011 21:24

YANBU. I bought the book thinking it would be suitable chick lit, easy reading, fiction for a beach holiday. I was gutted when I realised it was a factual account of some dull woman's holidays to find herself. Sort of Shirley Valentine but without the humour. I was amazed when I read some of the comments intelligent women like Michelle Obama had written about it. Needless to say I won't be watching the film.

spiderslegs · 05/09/2011 21:33

Am presuming Oprah loved it which is why it got so much 'heat', guess MIchelle Obama was aiming for the Oprah crowd, probably more suited to an American audience, but navel gazing does seem to be a communicable disease....

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