to have told my sister to p*ss off out my house!

[kiki22]

i guess i know IABU with the out the house part but AIBU as to why??

I am 17 weeks preg with my first baby so far i have had a terrible pregnancy i suffered badly from sickness for the first 12 weeks and tho it is ony maybe once or twice a week i am still being sick now, i have been so tired all the time and feel down as it is effecting my social life as am so sick/tired i don't have the energy to go out. I also have had 2 urine infections have has bad heartburn for the past 2 weeks and had terrible constipation the whole time. AND i have back problems so sitting at my desk at work every day has turned into a pain litraly... so feeling pretty damn sorry for myself at this point

My sister has told me im preg not dying and to get over it i shouldn't complain, she was preg at 17 so went straight from school to benfits so there was no tiredness issues for her as she could sleep any time she wanted (1 or 2 naps a day) she had no sickness at all, had heartburn that a glass of milk sorted and felt so good during her preg she went clubbing (not drinking) every weekend up until the sat before her DD was born she also was at an ann summers party when she went into labour and stayed to the end so obviously she was feeling pretty good up until then, she also lived with my mum the whole time so had no housework to do or bills to worry about...

After weeks of being told to get over it i snapped told her she should be thanking her lucky stars she had such a good preg it could easily be the other way around... her answer was 'god just get on with it' now i know it was childish but told her to piss of home n not come back but sooo sick of listening to her rubbish

sorry for the long post rant over

Thanks everyone for sharing ur horror storys :) nice to know others feel the same.

• just on the comment about baby sharing with my mum my sister is more than happy to baby share quite frequently says she needs some space and buggers of to her friends in London (from Glasgow) for a week or 2 and says it's only fair my mum babysits at the weekend, she's also refuses to put her name down for a council house and said no to my dads offer for help with the deposit for a private let so she's happy with how she is. Often tells her friends everyone should do it her way no man to take care of n only has DD when she's being good great life she says. Says i'm mad for having a man to answer to would be alright if he paid for things but whats the point in bothering with all that if you still need to work.

I don't usually bother with her theorys on life just let her get on with it but was feeling very very rubbish yesterday and someone coming to cheer u up then telling you to get over it does not cheer u up! x