Actually Oblomov, I was thinking that whilst what your son eats sounds a lot, it actually sounds pretty balanced to me - fruit etc, carbs, protein, am I wrong in thinking there isn't anything terrible in there? I mean crisps are ok in moderation surely?
This thread has really made me think lots about how I will help my daughter to eat healthily, but also, more importantly have a positive attitude to food and portion control. Currently she is 16 months and eats 2 weetabix for breakfast, then a banana or something similar in the morning, lunch is whatever we have had the night before, do stews, pasta etc - sometimes fishfingers, or a sandwich - talking about 200grams I guess. Then she will snack on raisins, fruit, satsumas etc, maybe 2 handfuls a day of those, then an evening meal, usually meat and veg, again 200 grams ish. then lots of water, very little milk, but one bf a day. the occasional rich tea biscuit. and chocolate digestive when she manages to get them out of the cupboard herself when I'm not looking. I think this is a pretty healthy appetite, and she doesn't turn any food down, at least not yet!
So currently she self regulates, I think - some days she eats less, some days more - but we don't have to stop her or control it as such, we just all have to try to eat a balanced diet to that she does, as she eats the same as us minus the wine and chocolate.
But when does this stop? when will I have to start saying, no you cant have three packets of crisps, you have to have fruit? because I easily put on weight, DH doesn't, I don't have that self control, and have a horrible body image and constantly think about how much I weigh, how much I am eating, etc.
I really want her to not be like that - but how? I just don't know the answer to it really.