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AIBU?

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to roll my eyes at my Mum's affair/obsession

59 replies

eyeroll · 19/07/2011 11:50

Namechanged for this as some of it might make me recogniseable in RL.

My parents are separated. My Mum has developed some kind of an obsession with an ex-popstar (1970s ish) who she met somewhere recently, and I'm pretty sure she is now having an affair with him (he's married). She and I don't discusss such things but I know she sees hime quite often.

I just find the while thing faintly ridiculous though. She's constantly glued to her mobile, reading or sending texts; she has a calendar of him on her wall. When I visited just the other day she put on a video of his band performing on TOTP; she didn't tell me it was him, or that it was a video, but I thought I recognised him and looked the band up on Wikipedia. After the song finished she changed the channel back to the TV. It was just very odd, maybe she was hoping I'd comment that it was a good song?? If she hasn't seen or heard from him in a while she gets moody and depressed and acts like a grumpy teenager.

She's on FB and sometimes 'likes' things to do with him or his band and the whole thing just makes me roll my eyes. AIBU?

OP posts:
tethersend · 20/07/2011 18:44

I bet I would.

usualsuspect · 20/07/2011 18:44

Tiny clue ,please

AnyFucker · 20/07/2011 18:55

"don't knock it until you've tried it"

now I understand your view on this, cogito Hmm

it may shock you that I am perfectly aware that people are having affairs with other people all over the place, but to actively encourage it ?

I also believe the cheating partner is completely responsible for his/her choices

why get married in the first place though, if people have such little respect for what it means, and there are infidelity-champions like yourself on the sidelines saying "go on, you know it makes sense...

bad news

GeetTallBird · 20/07/2011 18:56

Sure your mum ain't Liz Jones?!

AnyFucker · 20/07/2011 18:57

Grin at Gary glitter

Fifis25StottieCakes · 20/07/2011 19:04

does he still wear platformd and have sholder length curtains. If he has your mam is being VU

I used to work in a place owned by a member of a 70's group, He still had the same hair Shock

Fifis25StottieCakes · 20/07/2011 19:04

sorry for typos

EuphemiaMcGonagall · 20/07/2011 19:10

If it's Donny Osmond, Glenn Tilbrook, Paul Weller or Gary Numan your ma is totally in for a pure battering, by the way. Envy

LemonDifficult · 20/07/2011 19:17

OP, don't concern yourself with this guy's other life too much, I think your concern is your mum. She's going to get hurt and she'll likely make a tit out of herself and that won't be great.

Who's the friend who's egging her on? You need an ally.

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