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AIBU to think eating chips in a shop is uncouth?

96 replies

NestaFiesta · 07/07/2011 16:28

Twice in a week now I have seen people eating bags of chips whilst walking round a supermarket and a charity shop. I love chips as much as the next person but I just think it's horrible to eat greasy food whilst in a shop. I mean, can't they wait? AND I saw a woman eating a pasty whilst she shopped for stationery. Yuk. AIBU?

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CristinaTheAstonishing · 07/07/2011 18:25

Driving with children should be banned - that definitely is driving without due care and attention if they are fighting.

eurochick · 07/07/2011 18:27

YANBU. Can't people stop feeding their faces while they shop? It is uncouth. And it is rude to the shop owners who had to clean up the greasy fingerprints and dropped chips.

Annunziata · 07/07/2011 18:27

YANBU with the chips, but maybe a bit with the pastry.

On the other hand, I hate it when I serve somebody (at work) and they start eating it before they've even handed me the money. Disgusting.

catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 18:28

What about letting children drive. Whilst eating. Turkey dinosaurs.?

CristinaTheAstonishing · 07/07/2011 18:29

We've finally reached agreement there :o

catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 18:29
Grin
slowshow · 07/07/2011 18:31

Tsk, I remember when I was a kid, shops would have "no food or drink" signs on the doors, and people would usually obey it. I think eating anything, but especially chips, is pretty gross and disrespectful to the shop and its customers. It's not just greasy fingerprints on the goods, it's the SMELL. Same applies to hot food on the bus/train.

superjobeespecs · 07/07/2011 18:34

i eat and walk if im in a rush, prefer to eat sitting on a bench. if im in a shopping centre and walk eating i wont eat in the actual shops just the causeway if that makes sense? it does in my head so ner Grin

LolaRennt · 07/07/2011 18:37

eating in shops is very rude and almost always against the shops rules

catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 18:39

You should never eat on the street. It is very uncouth as the OP says

HeidiKat · 07/07/2011 18:42

Cristina I'm thinking that any food thrown down on the street gets eaten pretty quickly by seagulls/pigeons.

PainSnail · 07/07/2011 18:45

I am always astonished by the number of people who think its okay to eat in shops.

Case in point. During last weeks sunny spell two parents brought two children into my shoe shop with the BIGGEST and DRIPPIEST half melted ice creams I have ever seen. They got that ice cream EVERYWHERE (including on me) and ruined several pairs of shoes that we couldn't re-sell. So cheers for that, if you're reading this.

herecomesthsun · 07/07/2011 19:03

Personally, I think there is an element of time constraint and I can imagine situations where I would eat literally on the go. Usually I would prefer not to. Also, I think it depends a bit on the shop. Waitrose are very happy to make arrangements for parents to buy fruit, for example, that a small and hungry child can eat in the trolley while going round the store. I would not see eating food in a supermarket (that one has paid for) as being terribly bad manners, and I am sure that I have bought a few things over lunchtime and also a sandwich (paid for), which I have of necessity had to eat on the hoof in the supermarket.

I can see why clothes shops and some book shops would be reluctant about eating near their products, in case they got damaged. However some booksellers have cafes in them and positively encourage customers to have a coffee (and possibly a pastry) while browsing (Blackwells, Waterstones, Borders formerly). That has been a successful sales technique with me, as I have been able to sit in comfort and read a book long enough to decide I wanted to take it home with me. (Also the book shop makes money on the cafe and attracts customers in who want a coffee but have to pass lots of tempting books on the way.) Clearly in that case the bookshop is not objecting to people eating while fingering its merchandise.

I think it makes a difference also what sort of food. Hot savory/ pungent / meaty food could, I see, be off-putting. However, I live fairly near the sea and in our local shopping area often see people munching on local ice cream while browsing - it is a place popular with holiday makers, with a lot of shops that attract the tourist trade. These shopkeepers would be very unlikely to object, I think, to someone wandering delicately licking a vanilla cone. And while it is nice and comme il faut to sit down for a meal, ice cream cones seem designed to be eaten on the move, and I would be surprised if having an icecream in the street on holiday were seen as bad form.

herecomesthsun · 07/07/2011 19:04

Ah. Cross posted. I would agree that a customer actually soiling or damaging goods should pay for them.

whatsallthehullaballoo · 07/07/2011 19:19

Well I think YABU

Everyone knows that if you eat standing up the calories do not count Wink

Heifer · 07/07/2011 19:42

I was taught only "common" people ate whilst walking down the street.

The ONLY time this was acceptable was when on holiday strolling down the promenade Grin

NestaFiesta · 07/07/2011 19:56

Eating an ice cream cone in the street- a lovely tradition.
Eating a Cornish pasty whilst choosing envelopes in a shop- uncouth!

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catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 19:58

Agree Ice cream cone acceptable. Picnic also acceptable and fish and chips on promenade etc. Anything else eaten on street not so acceptable. Cannot actually believe that people would eat food in a shop - never seen it but horrified it actually happens. Yuck.

eurochick · 07/07/2011 20:03

I have a very busy life and a full time job and have managed to make it through 35 years without needing to eat in shops. I have managed not to keel over from hunger whilst doing so. Nor was I ever allowed to eat while we were going round the supermarket when I was a kid. I survived.

I am shocked at the number of people who think it is acceptable to eat in shops.

mollymole · 07/07/2011 20:51

agree with your 100% heifer
only COMMON people eat in the street.

usualsuspect · 07/07/2011 20:58

So I'm common ,uncouth.greedy and nasty because I occasionally eat a sausage roll or bag of chips in the street

herecomesthsun · 07/07/2011 21:01

Well suppose hypothetically you are a doctor with a pager, on call from out of the hospital on a Saturday. Your bleep goes off regardng 2 potentially time consuming calls while you are in the vicinity of a supermarket at 5pm. If you grab a sandwich very quickly and eat it in the street you get to have something to eat that evening. If you don't you might not get to eat till 9 or 10pm. There is busy and busy. Common is as common does.

catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 21:02

No. It still uncouth. Doctor in a rush or not.

herecomesthsun · 07/07/2011 21:04

No. That is just a small minded attitude

catgirl1976 · 07/07/2011 21:04

No. It's manners.