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AIBU?

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To think that you should not use the parent/child spaces at the supermarket once your kid is over, say, 5?

141 replies

SuzysZoo · 06/07/2011 13:44

Ok - fine if your child has special needs over 5 but otherwise you should not park there. Surely it means you have a non-walking child/toddler/buggy/car seat. Kids getting out of cars in those spaces in school uniforms annoy me...AIBU?

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floosiemcwoosie · 06/07/2011 14:59

I am a sinner!!!!!!!I have a 4 x 4 and a 5 yr old and I sometimes use the P and C parking. On the whole I try to avoid them, but then some prick parks so close to the car seat side that I cant get him in!! Why do people do that?

naturalbaby · 06/07/2011 15:00

so now we have a competition for who deserves the P&C spaces most (me please with a 5month old, nearly 2yr old who likes to run at the 1st whiff of freedom and a 3yr old who likes to run faster than i can say 'off we go')
and a competition for who deserves disabled spaces most?!? shall we have graded blue badges now so everyone can inspect them in the windscreen as they pass??

PiousPrat · 06/07/2011 15:01

I'm hugely pregnant and rond here, people park like arses so it is a nightmare squeezing my fat arse shapely bump through the 6 inch gap left when parking properly between the lines of a normal space.

Should I be allowed a P&C space as I am 'with child'? Grin

Tanif · 06/07/2011 15:04

Tree hugging liberals... Tell you what. Let's make sure EVERYONE has a special space in the carpark. We can have a section for people that are disabled, a section for people that are 'disabled', P&C, SPECIAL P&C, parent and teenager, elderly, cars with spoilers, people who like digestive biscuits... the list is endless.

Hullygully · 06/07/2011 15:04

THEY ARE ALL BASTARDS. BASTARDS. SHOOT THE FUCKERS ON SIGHT

floosiemcwoosie · 06/07/2011 15:06

I dont want my Mulberry bashed...i think i should have my own space

The ds will be fine, he can climb out the sunroof

AuntieMonica · 06/07/2011 15:08

but who 1st, hully?

see, still has to be a pecking order Sad

sunshineandbooks · 06/07/2011 15:08

Grin PiousPrat Definitely! You are literally parent/child in one. I remember having the same problem (I was huge as I was carrying twins).

thumbwitch · 06/07/2011 15:08

I have no need to re-read your comment, thanks Tanif. Nor any wish to.

MarioandLuigi · 06/07/2011 15:09

Tree hugging liberals
Biscuit

Hullygully · 06/07/2011 15:09

I only park in them if I am shopping for my dc. I can't see what the diff is if they are actually with me or not.

floosiemcwoosie · 06/07/2011 15:11

wine drinkers, thats who should cme first. Not only do we have bottles to carefully balance but we are also pissed therefore require more room to lurch about.

sunshineandbooks · 06/07/2011 15:13
Grin
Hullygully · 06/07/2011 15:16

Good point floosie.

Blu · 06/07/2011 15:22

No one with a child too old to breast feed should use a P&C space.

Ta Daaaaa!

thumbwitch · 06/07/2011 15:25

oh Blu.... well named there, having just lit the blue touchpaper on the BF ishoo as well! Grin

Debs75 · 06/07/2011 15:40

Just make parking spaces big enough for the average sized car

MadYoungCatLady · 06/07/2011 15:58

I've never really understood the whole P&C thing - surely everyone knows when they decide to have children that they will inevitably end up at the supermarket one day? Why do parents get special places? At my local supermarket P&C spaces are closer than disabled spaces to the entrance. I think its disgusting!

DoraJarr · 06/07/2011 16:00

i use the fuckers and my kids are 8 plus.

oohjarWhatsit · 06/07/2011 16:00

i always park in them if there are no others available

my sainsbury says leave them for parents with kids under 14!

yeah right

Illegitimate · 06/07/2011 16:03

I park across two normal spaces- gives me loads of roomGrin

cazza40 · 06/07/2011 16:06

Yabu

HappyDoll · 06/07/2011 16:10

I think supermarkets should design their car parks as follows:
Wide spaces, close to doors - disabled.
Wide spaces, next step away from doors - parent and child that cannot yet walk, follow the green cross code or put on a seat belt independantly.
Wide spaces, a long way from the door - fat people of any ilk (disabled or with child or with parent or with sausage roll).
Wide spaces in the next car park along with covered 'hanging about' areas - teenagers.
All other spaces, normal sized - anyone that didn't pass the test upon entrance.
Also, every car park should provide adequate 'lurking space' for anyone that wastes their time enjoys being a 'stickler' (what, what, quick dig in the ribs like)

TheFlyingOnion · 06/07/2011 16:33

"Wide spaces, a long way from the door - fat people of any ilk (disabled or with child or with parent or with sausage roll)."

Grin @ happydoll

I park in the P+C spaces for two reasons only:

  1. if I'm with my mum (alright I'm 33 but it still counts)
  2. if there are no other spaces.

I know some people regard having kids as a disability, but I don't see why they need to be nearer the doors....

Anyone who parks in a disabled space without a blue badge gets my full ire....

3cutedarlings · 06/07/2011 16:40

Excellent happydoll Grin then we all know just what order we should be in! pmsl