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to think lots of people have ridden a horse before?

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reastie · 01/07/2011 21:59

I know this is random! For some reason DH and I were talking about horse riding ealier and he announced his mum has ridden a horse in a way which implied I should be amazed and impressed. I made some comment about surely lots of people have done this and it wasn't unusual at all, a argument discussion ensued and we both had a stand off as to who is right. So - who is right? Am I being very middle class and showing my country-ish upbringing by assuming it's normal that people would have been on a horse or is he right ? He is convinced he'll win this Hmm

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Ilythia · 04/07/2011 09:58

I have ridden on a horse but I grew up on a farm. I moved to a large town, DH's mum rode all her life and had horses until she was ill but she was a rarity, only rich people rode there.
Where I live now (city on edge of country) I don't know anyone who rides, and most of the children on a trip out(work in schools) freaked out when they saw a real cow, let alone a horse.
Having said that, we do have a large gypsy community where I live so there are horses ridden up and down the street and 'parked' in the local park, but they aren't for everyone to rideGrin

IMO your DH is right.

SusanneLinder · 04/07/2011 10:47

I used to ride when I was younger.DD1 and DD3 went riding, DD2 never expressed an interest. DD3 still rides with RDA.

My dad had a horse,but then so did most people in Ireland when he grew up,certainly not posh,they were quite poor actually.

DH has never ridden,but would like to.

I have also ridden on a camel and an elephant. :)

olderyetwider · 04/07/2011 10:54

We are a horsey family, we have 4, and we all ride. It's a lovely way to spend time as a family, and as nearly teenage GD has two ponies to keep fit and compete she has no time for hanging around with boys/dressing like a hooker/sneaking alcopops in the park Grin We are very poor as a result of all our horses though

Backinthebox · 04/07/2011 21:14

I come from what you would call a fairly working class background. My mother's parents were factory workers and cleaners throughout their lives and my dad's father was a car mechanic. Not exactly part of the elite. My dad's best friend was a builder with a big interest in horses, and they bought a pony for their kids to share. We kept him in the garage and tethered him on waste land, and so began my journey into the world of the 'privileged.' As the years went by we acquired more horses and ponies, often freebies that were other people's rejects, and with each new pony my dad and his builder mate put up another garage in the garden, often got for free from Loot, free to whoever took it away. We got our bedding free from the local sawmill, rode to the vets to avoid callout charges, and had to make use of whatever turnout space we could get for them - which included the kinds of places most horse owners would not dream of keeping their horses. My sister and I held down lots of little jobs like paper rounds and babysitting to pay for them.

So, basically, I reckon you can be horsey either by the injection of large amounts of cash or incredible amounts of hard work and dedication - a fact some people who would declare it to be 'for the few' sometimes neglect to recognise.

Wind forward a few decades, and I reckon I now have a job which truly puts me among the elite as a direct result of learning to be committed to something, something which having horses on a shoestring taught me when I was younger.

I have many memories of riding with my best friend over the bridge to Bransholme council estate to gallop around with the estate kids who would ride their ponies bareback. We were considered posh there. We used to ride around Orchard Park council estate too, as there were good grass verges for a gallop there Grin We'd often be raced by kids on their souped-up mopeds. Clearly council estate ponies are still around - here and here are a couple of recent articles.

reastie · 04/07/2011 21:20

mamachoo sadly he didn't mean a zebra, it was definately a horse he mentioned. A zebra would be very Grin

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reastie · 04/07/2011 21:22

ada yes that counts in my world Grin Shock

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Tchootnika · 04/07/2011 23:20

Love horses - grew up around them, which was a massive, massive privilege. I know loads and loads of people who've never been anywhere near them, though, and say that they find them really scary - which always makes me a bit sad.
Even better than riding horses, IMO, is generally hanging out with them and looking after them.
Lots to be learned from life with horses - they're just lovely. I wish more people had the chance to be around them.

begonyabampot · 04/07/2011 23:26

Never been on a horse - a donkey or pony on Blackpool beach, also a camel (not on Blackpool beach) but not a horse.

MyNameIsInigoMontoya · 04/07/2011 23:35

I have ridden a horse and a camel, and an elephant (sitting on its head!). Grin

Have also fallen off a horse though, that bit was not so good...

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