To refuse to let my husband tell my mother that my dad has been meeting with women in hotel rooms to spank them?

[MrGimpy]

My husband and I recently went to stay with my parents for a week. Long story short, we were having a flick through my Dad's Filofax (bad I know) and found various usernames and passwords for websites which turned out to be forums for people who enjoy spanking. On these forums, we found evidence that my Dad has been meeting women in hotel rooms for about the last 7 years to spank them and also possibly have sex with them. He has also been buying canes and toys from Ebay. My husband wants to tell my mother about it, but I have banned him from doing so. Am I being unreasonable?

[TheOriginalFAB]

Your user name adds to the improbability of this being true.

[JambalayaCodfishPie]

Honey potting?

You mean honey-trapping, surely.

Unless you were implyng what youre going to be using if we feed you our wildest fantasies here....

www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplay_et!letc~ev!10201%7C%7Cet!letc~ev!15912%7C%7C_40151_-1_10201_42176_10001_

[Northernlurker]

OP - you seriously expect us to believe that your father nice and tidely wrote down all his creepy contacts in a filofax then left it lying about for you and/or your mother to nose through?
Errr yes of course he did.

Why don't you go and watch wimbledon?

[Oakmaiden]

I've got a filofax and I use it every day.

It is, um, on the floor preventing my sitting room, door from damaging the arm of my nice new sofa if the children open the door too vigorously.

So I can agree Filofaxes are VERY useful.

[crispyseaweed]

best not tell her.....

[Mamaz0n]

how do you know that the "gifts" are not for your mother? That she is not also partaking in all of this?

either mind your own or leave a piece of vital "evidence" somewhere your mother will find it so that she can discover his (apparent) secret herself.

[Pumpernickel10]

It's the mrgimpy that got me! Does daddy own a gimp mask by any chance

[Pumpernickel10]

Spank me spank me

[Omigawd]

Ah yes....England. The thwack of willow on leather.

And they also play cricket I believe :o

[Ambers123]

No i think you are doing the right thing and trying to protect your Mum from the awful shock she would have by finding out, sometimes it is better to let sleeping dogs lie.

[Mandy2003]

Tell him if you could read his internet history, so could anyone. You should tell him that your Mum could find out accidentally.

Don't automatically consider that there is any sexual contact between him and the sex worker either.

You saw he bought stockings, I think they would probably be for HIM to wear, not as gifts.

[FabbyChic]

I have an A4 Filofax, much better to write things down as opposed to using a computer.

[NorthernGobshite]

Is this a joke?

[kayah]

let be assured not all who indulge in spanking would follow that wit ha night of passionate sex

he is either sub or a dom, either way you sohuld never assume spanking sessio ninvolved sex

[travellingwilbury]

At least now you know what to buy him for christmas .

[TheCrackFox]

A rubber ring would be a good suggestion.

[Pumpernickel10]